Confidentially...Discretion. Trust . Non Judgmental

uniquemonique's Avatar
Discretion ..Does anyone in this Hobby know what it MEANS?





The quality of behaving or speaking in such a way as to avoid causing offense or revealing private information.



Discretion in keeping secret information.



Most recently some info about me and a couple of other providers. Have been floating around on the Internet. Let's keep it real. EVERYBODY has a Past and a story too tell. Not to mention skeleton's. Hell some of us have a freaking cemetery..OKAY



My point is this. We know our backgrounds and we know things haven't always be great. We don't need anybody throwing it up in our faces.



" NOBODY ...and I Mean NOBODY in this Hobby is perfect. Everyone will have a blemish or 2 on there record."



If you really wanna get technical about it. Below is just a code that me , you and anyone else that is affiliated with this site and others. NEWS Flash we are all breaking laws dailey. For our own pleasures...ect..ect. I mean what if some of us Providers went to sneaking around just to find out your personnel info. I think you gentlemen would agree
with me..You would be upset and start having trust issues with the next provider saw. SAME RULES APPLY FOR US>. We have handle names and code words for a reason...

Can we please keep the Discretion where it belongs...Thank you



Texas Penal Code - Section 43.02. Prostitution

Prostitution under Texas Law

The prostitution statute in Texas, Section 43.02(a) proves:

(a) A man or woman commits an offense of prostitution if the person knowingly:

(1) offers to engage, agrees to engage, or engages in sexual conduct for a fee; or

(2) solicits another in a public place to engage with him in sexual conduct for hire.
Sweet N Little's Avatar
Sorry that happened UM, some people must have nothing better to do and have a miserable life to do that..Karma will handle that

Discretion ....
" NOBODY ...and I Mean NOBODY in this Hobby is perfect. Everyone will have a blemish or 2 on there record."...
Can we please keep the Discretion where it belongs...Thank you
Originally Posted by uniquemonique
I'm not perfect?!?! (Well, maybe not but, certain parts of me are excellent)
ck1942's Avatar
"Confidentiality" and "Privacy" begin with "Number One" meaning each individual must keep his/her own info private.

The only way to keep anything secret (or private) is to keep it to one's self.

That said, my sympathy. And I know all too well the issues associated with letting folks you think you can trust know much of anything.

As for your Texas penal code quotes.... all very well, and yes, I understand that "you might beat the rap but you can't always avoid the ride..."

...So, even though one never mentions anything about money or about services, the "fall out" can be quite hurtful and always very expensive.

That's why screening and vouching is a two-way process.
pyramider's Avatar
No part of me is perfect, except maybe my 1.3" of dangling death.
AGREED OP!

Discretion is a MUST FOR EVERYONE...
Cpalmson's Avatar
Confidentiality and discretion are a must. That is why I will NEVER see a provider who requires my real name or any other information that could easily lead to figuring out who I really am. There are lots of unscrupulous people in the world. The hobby world has it's fair share, but as the OP mentioned, there has to be some level of trust. Not to pat myself on the back or anything, but I've been with a few providers who unknowingly allowed me to come across very private information about them. They don't know what I know about them. I wasn't snooping for the info. It was literally in plain site. I could have used that information as I pleased if I were an asshole. I could have done some real damage to these ladies. I didn't. I'm sure 98% of the rest of us in this hobby would have been just as scrupulous, but it is the 2% that are the rotten apples. Just be careful. You almost have to treat your private information like state secrets.
Still Looking's Avatar
Don't sweat the big stuff. I get talked about all the time. There was a rumor going around that I had a "big penis". At least I thinck so, they said I was a BIG DICK. I wonder who told?