Finding a "unicorn" for three-way with girlfriend

I mentioned this in the Strip Club forum, and it's worth asking here, too: Any advice on finding a girl to join my GF and me for a threesome? I know many providers here would be happy to help but the GF is not down for that, nor for looking at personal ads or going to swingers clubs. She likes the idea of meeting someone at a bar or club and taking them home or to a hotel. Could be a one-time thing or repeat fun.

Does anyone have any suggestions for places we'd have a better chance, and/or how to approach possible candidates? (I'm thinking let the GF break the ice and do most of the talking.) We are both mid-30s, in decent shape and reasonably attractive.

We have a small social circle, so I don't think approaching one of our friends is worth the risk of awkwardness and gossip. I realize this isn't going to be easy and we'll probably get a few no's before getting a yes or even a maybe, but I can be patient. And I think just talking about it and trying is a big turn-on for her.

Actually it was one of my best friends that was my first threesome with my current fiance..... Other than a 3 way tug and finger job with her best friend before we started dating... I think people just need to be more open sexually. You're in Texas. And I have an open relationship. Since I moved to Texas, me and my fiance get a lot of weird looks and treatment when we tell people about it. Your best bets are going to be hiring someone in my opinion.
We've done stuff, but I can't talk her into checking out the swingers scene either. And from what I've heard that's even mostly a sausage fest. I've been asking myself the same question since I moved here. Most of the girls I've met here act like my entire relationship is based around blasphemy.

I agree, NuruGuru. I'm not saying we'd never ask a friend, if the conversation turned in that direction after a few drinks and we could sort of hint at it or half-joke about it and feel her out.

I am not opposed to hiring but it would take some convincing and probably several failed non-hired attempts to get her to go along with it. I'd rather reel in a civilian if at all possible.

Anyone else had any success with this?

Have you ever done a group-type session JayThomas?

I always enjoy sexually disappointing multiple women at one time. There is a certain efficiency to it.

NuruGuru- Nope, never had anything other than one-on-one in any setting.
Pyramider- Right! I look forward to trying this myself.

ok Here is my answer! The club Absinthe in Dallas off Lamar is a non lifestyle club that a lot of lifestyle friendly people frequent! it would be the best place for a pick up to happen they are pretty packed on Friday and Saturday nights! Hope that info helps! I have been a lifestyler and escort for years and the owner of Absinthe owns 2 swinger clubs!

if your girlfriend is hot i will rent a unicorn outfit and be happy to help her out.

How about a Rainicorn?

Jay Thomas,

Brittney Leigh just gave you the most valuable information a man like yourself
could ever hear...! My ex-wife & I indulged in the lifestyle and found it as a enhancement to our marriage. Truth be known there bunches of bi ladies here in the DFW area, several providers on eccie & p411 who are bi in their private life, not just bi for the business too. Brittany is a pretty hot looking lady imho and she's bi! I need to keep Brittany penciled in on my to do list
as I wasnt aware of her sexual orientation....DAMN! She looks fun too!

Its really so sweet post.
I like it.

I have a set of friends where the wife does not know that it is arranged. She believes he simply got my number from his friend who is a swinger.

Maybe you can do something of the same. Find what type of girl she's interested in and arrange something.

Brittany- Thanks for the suggestion. I like that place and had heard about its ownership but didn't realize swingers went there, too.
Laura- Thanks. I thought about this earlier. Maybe. I don't know if I could afford as many hours as it would take to make it seem natural and spontaneous. And I'd hate to be stuck with the bill if the GF didn't even click with her enough to go for it.

my close gierl friend asked me to see her husband as a surprise for him. it was not usually something i'd do (mixing personal and buisness) but it went surprisingly well. still my friend to this day :-)

Why are you bumping a thread that's 5 years old?