I just got to thinking about HJ's...I have a civvie FWB, who gives an amazing handy. She gets totally or partially nude, uses lots of lube and spit, lots of eye contact all mixed in with some verbal encouragement. I think she likes the finish equally as much as I do. Plus, she knows exactly the right amount of touch after the climax, which serves to extend the pleasure. I think I actually prefer this to oral.
The hand job seems to be a lost art. Any of you ladies and gents agree?