"I don't mean to be rude, but let's get started!"

This morning I read an ad by a provider that begins "within the first five seconds I want to be on my knees at your feet" .... and goes on from there. Frankly, I liked the ad. It made me think about session "beginnings".

I can recall a provider writing that she had difficulty getting into a GFE frame of mind when the hobbyist walked through the door ... and began to immediately disrobe and perhaps a bit more than that.

I also recall a tee shirt that said, "No More Mr. Nice Guy! On Your Knees, Bitch" OK. Wearing that to a session with a provider you have not met before is probably not going to get things off to a good start ... unless earlier communications have established a sense of humor about such things.

I admit, I give good marks to providers when the review mentions a warm, affectionate greeting ... and things never seem to slow down. But I can also appreciate a provider being turned off by a client walking through the door and rushing or being too aggressive, initially. Certainly, some niceties and decorum should be observed.

So .. what's a good beginning to a session? Can we do two things at the same time? Get to know each other while we are getting started?

I appreciate that there are no rules in the sense that everyone is different. Would be helpful to me if a provider gave clear signals about what was tolerated, what was acceptable, and what was desirable.

I know full well that I will have more fun if the provider is enjoying herself so I would hope to avoid any conflict in that area. But I do have a preference for what is referred to in sales as a "fast start". Not entirely proud of that, but there it is.

Bob

I generally allow the gents to "set the tone" in our visits. Some guys are all about kisses at the door and others seem a bit more gun shy. I've had a couple clients that generally have me naked before we get from the doorway to the bed, and others who want to talk for 30-40 minutes before even making the slightest move towards taking off their shoes.

Goes along the old WALDT. My "basic" greeting with new gents is the same, their reaction sets the pace

I know I do like to actualy break the ice a bit before jumping into bed. Adds to the GFE feel.

However, once I get to know one of the ladies a few times, I would like to role play a throw you against the wall, rip your panties off and fuck your brains out, then say hi event. But it would only be with prior planning and consent.

I think that's why some Providers start the session with a nice bodyrub along with conversation. It's a nice way to combine physical contact with a "break the ice" moment. Now, if it goes too long or doesn't get around to being a nude rubdown pretty quickly I start to feel that I'm wasting my time. However, once I've been with a Provider I think the "drop to the knees and open my mouth" is a good tact for the Provider.

Dodger, The ad you are reffering to is mine. This is the first ad I have done like this.

I normally like to chit chat and get to know the person a little bit before hand. It normally makes things alot more sensual and well the true girlfriend experince. However there are times when all I want to do is get my fuck on! I just wanna have dirty kinky sex! I guess that was the mood I was in when I wrote my that you read.

I have clients I have seen before who have acutally said they wanted to show up and when they walk in the door they want me to meet them at the door with sexy lingerie on. Then just really start kissing on him and grab his member and well we both know what happens from there.

I also have the clients who love to have a more sensual " love making " approach if you will. Sit on the couch, chat for a while and laught and talk about things. They like soft music, candles, wine, and start off with a soft and sensual massage/Body rub. Then some passionate kissing.. and well one thing leads to another there.

EVERYONE is totally different. Each client is Unique in his own way. Each Situation is different. Some guys want to talk some guys just wanna cut the chase and just get it on. This is why I like talking with the gentleman before hand. I love figuring out what his fantasies and desires are. I love to know what his needs and wants are.

This being said I always like to chit chat on phone or email. What ever the clients preferred method of contact is.

With that Contact I can get a sence and feel of what the clients needs and desires and fantasies are at that point. This really helps when you are trying to really figure out and give a client the exact experience he is looking for.

Enjoyed reading your ad Kristin, it definitely got my "members" attention.

Hey, it is 100 degrees out and humid as Cajun Country - shower anyone?!

I'll shower with ya

"within the first five seconds I want to be on my knees at your feet"

Hey Kristin, how is it that such a gorgeous woman thinks just like a man?

"within the first five seconds I want to be on my knees at your feet"

Hey Kristin, how is it that such a gorgeous woman thinks just like a man? Originally Posted by sky_wire

Really!!! How many guys put in a porn movie and watch the beginning????

Bob

(holding down the FF button till I see it in her mouth)

Enjoyed reading your ad Kristin, it definitely got my "members" attention. Originally Posted by bigmarv

+1.. and fact that she is a hottie also helps ...

A big goofy smile when she opens the door, a series of light fun kisses and as your breaking off from the kisses run your fingers sensually down her arms and tell her lets take a shower.

I find it to be the quickest way to break the ice and assures both are as fresh as you should be and with the texas heat even the walk from the car to the room can make you less than fresh.

This strikes me as right, at least for me.

First time with a lady always a bit nervous for me. I probably talk too much. As I have noted elsewhere, if the jokes are already wearing thin, go ahead and jump me. I doubt that I will object. Just saying.... you jumping me first says you are comfy with me. If that takes 30 mins or 30 seconds, no worries. Plus I find that incredibly sexy.

Now on subsequent sessions, could be a different story. Or, as one of my favs once said, take a shower and "come out swinging". Now that is sage advice...

I generally allow the gents to "set the tone" in our visits. Some guys are all about kisses at the door and others seem a bit more gun shy. I've had a couple clients that generally have me naked before we get from the doorway to the bed, and others who want to talk for 30-40 minutes before even making the slightest move towards taking off their shoes.

Goes along the old WALDT. My "basic" greeting with new gents is the same, their reaction sets the pace Originally Posted by DecemberLove

i had a session recently that the lady was in no hurry to get to the bedroom, she seemed to be avoiding it and running on my time. it took 40 minutes before we even headed upstairs and then i still had to take a shower. so basically it was almost 1 hour before i got plugged in to an orifice. this lady is a very well known provider with a stellar reputation. i would write a negative review on her but i am sure the white knights would slam me. i really wished i had not even booked with her and will not see her again. 15 minutes of sex in a 2 hour appointment is not acceptable to me....

+1.. and fact that she is a hottie also helps ...



Originally Posted by netman