Have you seen me before?

This is a slightly awkward situation that pops up every now and then for me. I contact a provider that I've seen before, but it's been a couple years, and I'm pretty sure they don't remember me, nor is there a record of our previous visit (i.e. a p411 ok). They ask (or the p411 request does) if I have seen them before. If I answer yes, and the provider doesn't remember me, then I feel like I am making them suspicious that I'm up to something.

However, if I answer no and it turns out they do remember me, then once again, I worry that they'll become suspicious about why I lied to them.

I've actually had a provider refuse to see me after I told her we'd met a few years back and couldn't provide any proof of our meeting. I've also had the opposite where I was afraid a girl wouldn't remember me, said we had never met, and about a minute in she called me out on it, and I could tell she was wondering if there was a reason I had lied about it.

Anybody ever experience this? Ladies, what do you suggest a guy do in this situation?

What I did in this situation was that I told her that I had seen her several years ago, but she likely didn't remember me. I told her what her incall was at the time so that she knew I was being honest.

She remembered me when I arrived at the incall and we had a great time.

What I did in this situation was that I told her that I had seen her several years ago, but she likely didn't remember me. I told her what her incall was at the time so that she knew I was being honest.

She remembered me when I arrived at the incall and we had a great time. Originally Posted by still-asleep

+1

I actually did this exact same thing just recently and it worked for me too. I know some of the P411 info got lost a few years back, but generally providers can see whom they've been with before via P411.

You should tell the truth. If you've seen her but she doesn't remember you and declines because of that then you just have to move on. But to say you haven't seen her when you have would seem a lot weirder.

And there are some cases where a client has two ladies confused. I exchanged p.m.s with a gentleman who swore he helped me move last year. Nope, never, no way. I told him I haven't moved in 10 years. He half-heartedly gave me the benefit of the doubt ("really? I'm almost sure it was you.")

(As far as moving into my new incall in November, it was already furnished. Moving in consisted of getting a key and bringing over some thigh-highs and heels.)

That's an advantage to setting up appointments via e-mail or PM. On occasion, I have searched back through my messages, found an old message, and, since the reply feature typically includes the previous correspondence, used that to start the new query.

I've also dug up old e-mails with incall addresses and cited them to back up my claim that I'm a repeat.

There's no way in hell that they'd remember me because there's usually so much time between appointments, so this certainly helps.

some girls don't remember till they see you at the door again.

If I do not recall someone I should have email record.
If its been more than 3 months I re-screen.
You never know how long it takes for someone to go crazy...

Some girls are not the ones doing the screening OR setting the appointments and most guys have no clue and even worse, she has no clue who she saw by name/handle/P411 ID.

It is always best to be honest as noted and simply mention something that you'd know only from being naked with them in the past, or something about you they'd remember.

Write a review and have it to show her next time.

Write a review and have it to show her next time. Originally Posted by Pistolero

I don't hobby with my handle. Lets me be myself on here without worrying about how it will affect my future sessions. I'll make exceptions if I really click and the lady gets my dry sense of humor, but that's rare.

I don't hobby with my handle. Lets me be myself on here without worrying about how it will affect my future sessions. I'll make exceptions if I really click and the lady gets my dry sense of humor, but that's rare. Originally Posted by TheBizz

Have we met? LOL

I tend to be pretty personable with any guy that allows me....LOL, my conversations are not rehersed or programed, so if they can't discribe my incall, they can usually tell me more than a few things we talked about.....and that works for me.

They always remember be.....

Every visit is different and unique. Think about the 1 thing that you think stood out the most about your visit and start with that. I always remember the little things about a person.

Every visit is different and unique. Think about the 1 thing that you think stood out the most about your visit and start with that. I always remember the little things about a person. Originally Posted by JacquelineWhatever

So we talked for a little bit, nervously, until I asked if I could jump in the shower. Cleaned off pretty quick, came out, and you had taken off your clothes (jeans and a light colored blouse, I think). I walked up to the bed, and you playfully took the towel off. We kissed, and then you went down on me. I made some moaning sounds, and you looked up at me and smiled. I took my hand and pushed your left knee over, spreading your legs. I swung my leg over onto the bed, and licked your stomach and thighs before going in. Stayed that way for a little while, then turned sideways, at which point you came or pretended to. I admired you doing so while never taking me out of your mouth, until you reached for the condom in the dresser. When you did, I surprised you from behind by burying my face in your ass for one last taste. You put the condom on me and we started pretty hot and heavy in mish, at which point you came or pretended to again. I asked you to turn around, and I worked you from behind , slapping your ass and leaning down to cradle your breasts. At one point I reached around and rubbed your clit, but I could tell you didn't really like it, so I stopped. Grabbed you by the hips, really thrusting away, and started yelling "oh yeah" a little bit as you tossed your hair and started pushing back. This was enough to take me over the edge, and I pulled out, took off the condom, and you rolled over just in time for me to come all over your stomach. I kept moaning "fuck, oh fuck". After I was spent, I jumped up and grabbed you a wet towel, and laid next to you as you tickled my chest. We talked about aspd a little bit, and I lied and said I'm just a lurker. We made fun of how into it some guys are. You mentioned you're originally from xxxxx, and I told you I've been there and love the weather. Got up, put on my clothes (slacks and a button down), and told you I had to get back to work. You gave me a hug and told me you really enjoyed it, and to call you soon so we could get together again. I promised I would, and told you I wouldn't be able to get you out of my mind. You may have given me a bottle of water, I can't remember.

This was a couple years ago, I think. Remember me?