I contacted him first via text and let him know he passed screening. That was around 2:30pm. He asked if I was free soon (around 4pm) and I replied I just finished voting and could see him at 6:30pm? He tells me he has dinner plans at some point in the night. I tell him when he gets a good idea on the time he can meet let me know ASAP.
Then around 7:30pm he asks if I do outfit request. I say sure and ask again what time do you have in mind? He says something like going to dinner now probably 10:30ish. I respond I may not be available for a late night appointment if we can't confirm. .
Originally Posted by Sexy Katrina
I never got this message in bold.
I did say I can commit to later tonight.
You said what time? I said 10:30-ish for 1-1.5 hours. The amount of time will depend on energy.
For you to not be anywhere near ready around 10:30, or even near your place. Mind you when I hit you up 1-2 hours PRIOR to our appointment is insane. That's not professional, that's what got me confused. For you to text me then at 9:30 that you didn't know, would have to get showered, and be there AFTER 10:30 is not what I wanted to hear.
I said I may be able to do later, please tell me a time. You shot it down. That's a no call no show.
There's no reason going back and forth. I was clear that I could commit to a later time and said that. You weren't even prepared anywhere near that time, and managed to get back to me an hour after my message.
With that said, I did want to extend an olive branch and suggest we meet today by texting you earlier. You said no cause I trashed your name, your call and very fair. We could come together, delete this, and move on happy ever after. That was my intent.
I'm not going to sit here much more on this, but when someone says they CAN COMMIT to a later time and say 10:30ish, text you at 845 about when they're ready, and you get back to them at 9:30-9:45 saying you aren't ready. That's just not professional.
I'm not going on much longer, if you don't want to see me that's fine. If you do, that's fine too. Not going to harp on it. Bottom line is, you need to actually be ready around the time someone tells you to be when they say they can commit or let them know well ahead of time.