Aunt FLO

dymetyme66's Avatar
I've started to ask providers when Aunt Flo is due to arrive...

I've had one to pour a PUNCH BOWL in my lap and another flipped her pillow quickly ( not thinking that I saw her ) due to blood spots..

I've heard stories of chics stuffing themselves with foam pads or whatever to slow the flow but that's too much of a chance EVEN with a HAT on...

Shut down the factory when the RED LIGHT comes on....
FunInDFW's Avatar
Might be a little awkward to ask when it's due specifically... seems like something that isn't really needing to be divulged to a client. Or are you asking in a more general sense? I could imagine a scenario where you let it be known you've had some issues with providers in the past and that it's something you're really not interested in chancing.
None of your damn business. At best you can say, FYI, I have a real issue with blood...if there is any reason to believe you may start during our session, please let me know so we can reschedule. Then do reschedule.

What you NEED to understand is that we don't always know. Sometimes a good fuck or hard orgasm can cause spotting or unexpected bleeding.

Of course, being on the pill or having an IUD will seriously help control this issue. And is also good from a pregnancy standpoint. But judging from the number of pregnant providers on ECCIE, many ladies here are not using those birth control methods.
When I have my lady days, Ijjust tell the client that "I'm out of commission down below for a few days, but would love to get extra naughty with some above the waist play".

But it is true that sometimes it just shows up outta nowhere.
Brass Balls's Avatar
I've had providers tell me as I'm driving over they are on their period, tell me after I arrived and gave my gift, and even tell me after we started (fortunately before any DATY activities started!). Had one lady that felt funny after insertion and she told me "it's a sponge for my blood, just push it on up and out of the way" Talk about a mood killer!

I appreciate the monthly flow doesn't arrive with military precision and accidents happen but if you already have it going on be upfront about it ladies.
If ladies get on a good birth control, you can have this interruption so rarely. It's a great time to go relax and take a vacation...
I understand if you don't want to or you have been advised against taking certain birth controls, but.. If you find yourself getting your period too much for your liking, it's definitely something to ask your dr about.
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You shouldn't even have to ask. In my experience, the provider would let me know and we would reschedule. No harm, no foul. Honesty, in any setting is ALWAYS appreciated. But I guess I can understand the situation as well where some providers get too greedy and depend on the kindness of us hobbyist not to leave, turn around and walk off, and leave a donation before we go. Most guys are so non-confontational and don't want drama that we go right along with it. I am fortunate to not have this happen to me.
Hercules's Avatar
None of your damn business. Originally Posted by LilMynx69
It is our business if;
We like DATY and have no desire to earn our red-wings.
or
It's a outcall and we don't want bloody sheets.
Brass Balls's Avatar
It is our business if;
We like DATY and have no desire to earn our red-wings.
or
It's a outcall and we don't want bloody sheets. Originally Posted by Hercules
Agree 1000%
bistraight69's Avatar
Right, you're bloody well right, you know you got a right to say.
Notice, I did not say you didn't have a right to know if a lady HAS her period. But it's simply rude to be all up in my business and demand to know where in my cycle I am.
None of your damn business. At best you can say, FYI, I have a real issue with blood...if there is any reason to believe you may start during our session, please let me know so we can reschedule. Then do reschedule.

What you NEED to understand is that we don't always know. Sometimes a good fuck or hard orgasm can cause spotting or unexpected bleeding.

Of course, being on the pill or having an IUD will seriously help control this issue. And is also good from a pregnancy standpoint. But judging from the number of pregnant providers on ECCIE, many ladies here are not using those birth control methods. Originally Posted by LilMynx69
. . . or condoms.

Notice, I did not say you didn't have a right to know if a lady HAS her period. But it's simply rude to be all up in my business and demand to know where in my cycle I am. Originally Posted by LilMynx69
What the . . . ?

Letting a man know the Status Quo of your pussy is not a common courtesy - It is his right to be informed and your duty to tell him if the river is running red.

Even though most of the gentlemen here are mature enough to know that a woman goes through a menstrual cycle, I'm pretty sure that they would expect a grown woman to have the decency and respect to tell them before hand, offer other services, or better yet, not provide at all during "that" time of the month!
Again. My point is that I think the proper way to address the situation is this, "if there is any chance it will be your time of the month, please let me know."

And of course the pregnant ladies are using condoms (well, part of the time, lol...I hope). But they obviously aren't usually menstrual cycle suppression methods in their real life.

My personal opinion is that if this is your job, then get on BC or get a mirena and limit your off time.

Judging from the punch bowl reaction, I'm not the only one that thinks he stated the question in a way that was overly personal or rude. Ijs

And as for the sponge thing. That's nasty and inappropriate.
Jessica Jade's Avatar
This is why fbsm L1 should be on the menu
I've had providers tell me as I'm driving over they are on their period, tell me after I arrived and gave my gift, and even tell me after we started (fortunately before any DATY activities started!). Had one lady that felt funny after insertion and she told me "it's a sponge for my blood, just push it on up and out of the way" Talk about a mood killer!

I appreciate the monthly flow doesn't arrive with military precision and accidents happen but if you already have it going on be upfront about it ladies. Originally Posted by Brass Balls
100% agree.