Newbie Question

As a newbie & have never done this before. I just wanted to know...

what is the protocol when you meet the provider? how do you start the whole "session"? what do you do with the donation? time-wise, are we timing this or what's up lol thanks
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Read the provider's web pages, etiquette entry, etc. MOST (not all) ask for the donation to be in a plain envelope, placed in plain sight (night stand, tv stand, desk, etc) and then excuse yourself to the bathroom or whatever. When you return, the clock starts and generally you start with some small talk, chit chat, and depending on the provider, maybe some kissing. Depending on the provider of course. Some go for kissing, some don't. From there, generally both "get comfortable" i.e. remove clothing and go from there.
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As a newbie & have never done this before. I just wanted to know...

what is the protocol when you meet the provider? how do you start the whole "session"? what do you do with the donation? time-wise, are we timing this or what's up lol thanks Originally Posted by linsane
This thread may help you out.
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=178982
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Your best bet is to continue to download porn until you are willing to do your research. The Search tab is your friend. Research and then ask questions.
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Best newbie advice ever. So much so that I'm adding it to my mod signature.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=178982
thank you! bookmarked
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Best newbie advice ever. So much so that I'm adding it to my mod signature.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=178982 Originally Posted by omakase
Wow.. thanks. Saved for future use for the next newbie question.
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most newbies i'm assumming start out on the backpage.
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most newbies i'm assumming start out on the backpage. Originally Posted by kusmaldo
Actually my first time was at a local Whore House with the Infamous 30-Minute Knock for a hour session.
Best newbie advice ever. So much so that I'm adding it to my mod signature.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=178982 Originally Posted by omakase
thanks!!
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  • 05-31-2013, 04:24 PM
most newbies i'm assumming start out on the backpage. Originally Posted by kusmaldo
I don't know that is true at all, though it may be. My start predated BP, but the people I PM & e-mail with extensively, I don't think any started that way, or ever used it. I know I have never seen someone because of BP--and never go window shopping there--though I have seen some ladies who do advertise there as well as here, P411, etc.
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I don't know that is true at all, though it may be. My start predated BP, but the people I PM & e-mail with extensively, I don't think any started that way, or ever used it. I know I have never seen someone because of BP--and never go window shopping there--though I have seen some ladies who do advertise there as well as here, P411, etc. Originally Posted by Old-T
Concur Old-T. I have never contacted someone due to a BP ad. But, some ladies I've contacted and had appointments with also post on BP as well as P411. So long as I can confirm them and do due diligence research, I don't particularly care if they advertise on BP or not. But I have never picked a woman to contact based on their BP ad. <shudder>
Im fairly new to this to and my first provider was on BP. Terrible experince but a lesson learned. I found an add on ECCIE and actually had my first "real" provider yesterday and wrote a review. The search feature is your friend as well as researching your providers history