ok I'm new to the hobby

and I would like to know why so many providers just stop responding
I don't know what I'm doing wrong but it must be something any help would be great

and I would like to know why so many providers just stop responding
I don't know what I'm doing wrong but it must be something any help would be great Originally Posted by bobsmith77

You aren't new.
Perhaps explain how you have a join date in 2018.

You aren't new.
Perhaps explain how you have a join date in 2018. Originally Posted by Savannah Moon

" Touche ! Three-che, even. " - Snagglepuss.

Cause you're a newbie and haven't realized that most gals simply don't see newbies, nor will they spend time on phone or email, nor respond.
You will need to find a couple gals that are willing to do an indepth screening on you to get past the newbie status, as well as allow you to use them as references.
That said, I don't know any gals that screen newbies.
Last, the amount of data required by a gal doing newbie screening may be uncomfortable for you.
Last, Savannah has a point, you signed up several months ago and just now posting?
Four-chee

" Touche ! Three-che, even. " - Snagglepuss. Originally Posted by Joey_Gleet

Is that your new sweet name for me Joey
I was just kind of giving him a subtle clue.
I kinda like Hotlips better.
Recall MASH

Hey hun so i do see newbies(providing you pass screening) and am reference friendly)i will stop replying to someone only if they are rude or refuse to provide requested info for screening feel free to text me anytime

Good luck sugar!!!

I made the account so I could look around on the site I've only recently tried to contact any providers apologize for slow reply forgot I made this thread

Wishing ya lots of fun baby!!!!

Is that your new sweet name for me Joey
I was just kind of giving him a subtle clue.
I kinda like Hotlips better.
Recall MASH Originally Posted by Savannah Moon

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DIv5JOiC1-8

Personally I was on here 3 mos.and contacted Dallas before I ever posted anything. I wanted to check out what I was getting into & have a go to lady (THANKS D) before drawing attention to myself because I had never done anything like this before.😋

Well stated Desire
It can be difficult for both providers & Potential clients in the beginning
There are some threads currently about 2 of the new providers trying to start off.
When I stated you are not new..that was the reasoning behind the issues you OP in this thread. Some women won't touch that with a 10 ft pole..
Doesn't mean in any way you are a bad guy, just real difficult in the beginning.
You are lucky Ellie responded..
She laid out exactly what was needed and what was done wrong.
Rarely do you get a response like that.
Also a few ideas on alternative options were presented.

If you don't feel comfortable with a screening process, find one that fits you..go from there.
You will always have to do research..it is for your benefit to do so.
The more research you do before reaching out for a potential meeting the safer you will feel & the flow of the initial meet will be less nerve racking...you will walk in and be completely ready to enjoy the company you have chosen. And that is PRICELESS.
Have A Beautiful Sunday EVERYONE
And
SPANK ME!!

OX
Savannah Moon

I can't help but scratch my head when I see someone say they are new with a join date that says they've been a member for 6+ mos. I see that quite a bit😟💩

Yw sexy miss desire

I used to be newbie friendly...but due to new laws and the rise in "search for sex trafficer stings" I am more cautious...besides I am too old for jail lol!
I always tell gents go see a reputable newbie friendly gal first!

I’ll just throw my 1 cent in. I’ve been hobbying since the mid 90s (bigdoggie, aspd) and am far from a newbie. I had an aspd account. I barely post because I usually don’t have much to contribute. Also, when eccie went down I couldn’t get my old account (hobbyluver) back since I didn’t have the password and email account saved. I have to hide everything from the sexless wife and even outsmarted myself.