When is too big...too big?

Last night I introduced a friend and a friend of his to a gal that I just happened to know. After his friend got the deed done and when they came back into the room she gave me an evil stare. Like WTF? Guess the guy is hung like an overly endowed bull moose. Apparently, freakishly huge.

She doubts that she wants to see him again, not because he isn't a decent guy or did anything wrong, but his third leg is a seam ripper. Always thought you gals liked a huge, stiff and live play toy, the bigger the better? Never thought a huge tallywacker would be a hindrance for a gal.

So bigger is not always better is what you are saying. Supposedly Milton Berle was known to have been related to the horse. Apparently it was a bit of honor among Hollywood women to have been able to ride Uncle Milty. Giddy up little filly.

File this thread under "things I'll never have to worry about."

Sometimes, certain folks don't physically fit well together........but overall, my impression is that 90% of women will (when being truthful) tell you that bigger is better.

Myself, I like average to a little above average. Every once in a while, I like to see someone who is a little on the larger side.....a little bit of pain and pleasure type of thing. But, when its too big, it hurts and hurts to the point you don't want to have sex for a few days. And anyone who knows me, knows that's NOT a good thing for me. I love sex too much.

If you feel as though you are not large enough wouldn't a cock ring help? Or does that just help keeping an erection?

Marcus, it's my understanding that there are very few things one can do to truly increase the actual length or girth of his erection. The apparent length may be increased by surgically severing the suspensory ligament, but this comes with a host of complications that can be both unsightly and unhealthy, and attempts to repair the damage may actually end up shortening the overall length of the erection.

An increase in girth can be effected by injecting fat into the dartos fascia (a layer of flesh below the skin but above the erectile tissue), but it also has its complications, including unattractive nodules and possibly even loss of penile rigidity. There are some newer techniques being explored in grafting, but those have an even greater chance of asymmetry, infection, and other unacceptable side effects.

I'm no physician, but I have examined my options, as a man with slightly less than 18 cm in length and 14 cm circumference. Even though I'm fully aware that this is not truly "small", I've also been, as I assume we all have been, heavily influenced by porn actors to see myself as inadequate unless I'm swinging 23 cm worth of erection. Especially given the nature of our hobby, I always feel as though I might not be "measuring up" to what a provider would actually enjoy.

It truly is amazing how pernicious insecurities can be, eh?

When it comes to insecurities you need to throw that out the window and overcome. Providers have seen it all and I really doubt if 1% of us could get their engines purring outside of the business. I concentrate on cleanliness and attitude.


And a wallet.

Being hung like a hamster, I have never had this complaint. The one I usually hear is "Is it in yet? I can't feel nuthin'." LOL

The apparent length may be increased by surgically severing the suspensory ligament, but this comes with a host of complications that can be both unsightly and unhealthy,... Originally Posted by budmanstrong1975

Man... You just brought back some bad memories... An SO and I were once engaged in a rather spirited episode of carnal activity and during a raucous bout of CG, on an upward motion of her body, she rose a little too far and landed on my groin while I was partially inside... Bent my member and strained/stretched said ligament. The bruising eventually subsided but i have never 'hung' quite the same way ever since...

I'm no physician, but I have examined my options, as a man with slightly less than 18 cm in length and 14 cm circumference. Originally Posted by budmanstrong1975

Converting to english.....that's a tad over 7" in length, 5.5" circumference. According to Wikipedia, average length is 12.9 to 15 cm, (5.1-5.9"), circumference 12.3 cm (4.8")

Those of us on the small side of average would kill to be in your position.

I've always believed that guys who utilize the services of escorts were.....in general.....better equipped than the general population. Why? When you're on the left side of the bell curve, it takes a lot of courage to stand naked in front of a beautiful woman who is used to seeing lots of guys like budmanstrong1975. It takes a very powerful need to build up that kind of courage.

When it comes to insecurities you need to throw that out the window and overcome. Providers have seen it all and I really doubt if 1% of us could get their engines purring outside of the business. I concentrate on cleanliness and attitude.


And a wallet. Originally Posted by Marcus Aurelius

Don't get me wrong. I am absolutely aware that none of the women I have met through this hobby could possibly find me attractive in "civilian" life. I'm more than a bit of a nerd, I carry a spare tyre around my midsection (although with a proper exercise regimen, I've actually managed to drop about 5 stone in the past year), and a host of other things that I'm certain fall squarely into the "con" column.

I'm just saying that, all other things being equal, I would prefer to bring a positive attitude, impeccable hygiene, and equipment that is, if not actually arousing, at least not aesthetically or physically displeasing. But then, I'm something of a perfectionist that way.

Was very surprised that a gal would complain that a guys dick was to big. Never heard that comment before. Always believed you gals actively sought the biggest. When she came back from the upstairs playroom, she looked like she earned her wages and then some. Told her that she is lucky that I'm probably her most repetitive trick since this issue isn't a problem. Of course, I asked if I could get a discount from her standard retail price since she doesn't have to work so hard with me. Unfortunately, got the answer I expected, darn it anyway.

Small, medium, large doesn't matter. The man carrying it that matters. If he is small and knows it then he will compensate in other ways. Medium is perfect if the guy knows how to use it. Large is good too if the guys realizes he is above average and understands he can hurt a girl with it and doesn't try ramming all of it in.

Vaginas are different ...... some are size queens when it comes to dicks and there is no such thing as too big (in the front or the back) and some are "wimps" who can't take a centimeter bigger than 6 inches lol.
I'm perfectly fine with anything from 5 inches to 9 (witdth/girth matters too). And some lengths are better for some positions than others imo make them easier.

Last night I introduced a friend and a friend of his to a gal that I just happened to know. After his friend got the deed done and when they came back into the room she gave me an evil stare. Like WTF? Guess the guy is hung like an overly endowed bull moose. Apparently, freakishly huge.

She doubts that she wants to see him again, not because he isn't a decent guy or did anything wrong, but his third leg is a seam ripper. Always thought you gals liked a huge, stiff and live play toy, the bigger the better? Never thought a huge tallywacker would be a hindrance for a gal. Originally Posted by nashluv69

I no longer allow the cowgirl position. Heard a snap and was very painful for lonnnnng time. OK now but I have no wish to repeat the experience.