how did you get into the hobby?

I get asked alot how did i get into this..so now I am turning the question around and did you get started?I mean I never really knew this whole world really exisited and learn of new sites everyday

I started back when I was in my mid 20's. A friend of mine got me into it. Of course I was horny as hell at that age and ready to go!

Tedtex, would u give detailed steps u took to doing this? I would appreciate it if u would, cos I wanna learn the ropes. Am new to this and still haven't figured it out yet.

I got started when I was fourteen living in Japan. Went into a bar. ( yes back then if you were tall enough to reach the bar you were old enough to drink) A young pretty japanese girl came over to me and asked if I wanted to have some fun. For 1000.00 Yen about 3 dollars at that time I got a two hour session above the bar. Man have prices gone up lol

I am a widower, (63 years old), of close to 13 years, I have had the love of my life. The loves in my life now are my Kids and my Grandkids.

I have no interest in any type of relationship that involves commitment, which is what most "civilian" women are looking for. I spent a couple of years dealing with this, and believe me, a 50 year old can darn near go postal on you just like a 22 year old when she finally realizes that you have no interest in "settling down".

A few years back, I decided to give this a try. I have seen several really nice Ladies, but have settled into what we call the ATF mode, I see just one provider. I enjoy my time with her, and when we are done, she goes about her business untill I am ready to see her again. No commitment, no strings, she gives me what I want, and I reward her for her efforts. It's a win-win.

In the future, if I decide to move on, that is exactly what I will do.

Good question, EV. I couldn't explain it fully without a couch and a box of tissues!--but suffice to say it goes back into my teens when I developed a curiosity about it. When I was 20, in college, I started paying serious attention to the ads in the classifieds for "massages" and started calling, at first just for grins. Over time, it settled on me that I could experience it more closely and one cold Thanksgiving break, I picked out an ad for a more mature provider and dropped by an old, nearly abandoned house in a rural area, where I enjoyed my first experience for $40, a sum I thought was out of this world. Worth it by far, but alot of money for me! The rest is history and to this day I prefer more mature (30 and up) ladies.

After 5 years celibate (wife -now ex, had cancer and never recovered from it emotionally or mentally!), I finally decided that I wasn't dead yet and explored the internet and finally found ASPD. I have never been so terrified in my life when I approached my first BCD session. I got there early (thank God), because my bowels did a double flip and I had to go to the restroom at the next door Walmart. And that was only for a BJ!!! I've learned a lot since then (about2 years).

In the 80's I had a sales territory that covered Lexington, Ky. to Nashville, Tn. to Atlanta, Ga.

One evening while sitting alone in my hotel room in Chattanooga, I started skimming the Yellow Pages and ran across escort services, and away I went.

It wasn't until 2000 that I discovered the world of online fun, and it's been a hell of a ride since.

I started in the mid 90's while in my mid 20's. I was living in Wichita KS and went to a hole in the wall "strip club". After the first set by this cute blonde she came over and talked to me. After about 5 minutes she asked if I wanted to go to the back...I did...she wasn't very good, but my cherry was broken as they say and I have not looked back

I am truly one of those do it for variety guys.

A guy walked into a bar and the bartender said....

That's all I remember.

A real life learning process; affairs, sugar daddy, strippers and then I finally discovered the hourly life.

If I could start over again I would rent everything and own nothing.

I am pre-programmed to have sex three times a day. By all means, I am NOT blaming my forefathers for getting me into this. I am just a result of million years long Natural Selection process. But these days child support can be very expensive. So hobbying is the only solution for me.

To paraphrase from some move about a sex worker, "Ladies, if your not putting your man's dick in your mouth, he'll be putting it in someone elses!"

My SO and I had a pretty good relationship until we had a kid...13 years ago. I can count on the fingers of two hands the number of times we've had sex since then. Her rejection of me was so severe at one point, I swore we'd never have sex again no matter how much she might want it, and I've stuck to that vow.

It's what drove me into the hobby...approximately 2 years ago.

[BTW, our personal relationship is better, but we still don't have sex.]

Tedtex, would u give detailed steps u took to doing this? I would appreciate it if u would, cos I wanna learn the ropes. Am new to this and still haven't figured it out yet. Originally Posted by Sweet Vera

Sure, however this happened back in the mid 80's so I'm not sure it still applies today. My friend had found a place which was in a business park which had a number of ladies working there. You'd walk in, select one, and head to a back room. Not a very personal approach compared to today where you can see pics, ads, personal websites, and read posts by the provider. Now I can at least find out more info about a lady and then if I decide to meet her it's on a one-on-one basic at her place or mine.