Ohhhh goodness--let's not beat this poor dead horse anymore.
Girls, the men will always troll bp. It's just plain in their nature. They'll make fun of the ones who get ripped off or arrested for doing it, and yet they'll continue to do it themselves.
If the reason you're upset is that you're not getting as much business as you'd like, then the answer is simply to improve your service, not blame other girls. If you feel your service can't be improved any more than it already is, then you're making about as much as your potential has allowed for this market. I'm not trying to sound like an asshole, it's just basic economics. There will always be newer, shinier, cheaper ladies to contend with. Building a good reputation is the only insurance against that.
Originally Posted by Blond_Lily
Lilly, you're absolutely correct about beating the dead horse. But there are some that just don't get it from a safety standpoint.
Yes, horn dawgs will always troll BP, CL and other sources even more remote. And we've established that some of these ladies do screen and play safe - most do not. Again, some that started there, like you, easily figured it out after being introduced to some of the more traditional hobby sites.
For the guys who wish to continually TOFTT, please take the time to introduce them to some of the safer hobby procedures. Some markets are better than others and having a choice that meets one's requirements. All I ask guys is play safe. Think with the big head instead of the little one. It will limit the times you are scammed and disappointed with poor service. Ladies, play safe and screen getting references from known and trusted providers. It makes a better community for all of us.
As Forest might say, "That's all I got to say abou that!"