OK, this will be laughingly vanilla for most of you kinksters.
A lady friend and I like to occasionally dabble with sensual bondage, and I need some ideas/pointers for sensation play. What are some good implements to use, and perhaps even some suggestions for progression of things to use on her body, that will help me get her to the point where she is begging to be fucked.
She enjoys being blindfolded and bound, to the bed or standing (I kind of like standing, since it gives me access to both sides of her!). We've played with things like feathers, soft brushes, and cold/heat (ice cream and hot fudge sauce - yummy in more ways than one). I need to build up more of a repertoire.
She is not into pain, so only the mildest and briefest forms of pain would be welcome. She does enjoy having her nipples stimulated, so I typically pay a lot of attention to them.
Ideas?