I just wanna kno guys

Do guys even care anymore if the provider is comfortable or you just wanna get yours.

This may sound sterile and hurtful but....

You realize they are paying you for what they want and need, not the other way around.

Most may see you are a depository for both their money and seed.

They are not your boyfriend and you are not their girlfriend.

They are not your future husband since most have wives at home and are paying to get what they don't normaly get at home.

Is this a rhetorical question?


Comfortable how?

Youre right theyre payin.

But how can a provider not happy in situation or comfortable provide good service.
Its all about u huh ... Lol so when you go in she's just sandpaper. You gonna say the same thing lol

This is no bash at you OP at all so please don’t take it that way..

I think that it’s up to us, as providers to set our boundaries, express those boundaries in a respectful precise way and stick to them.

It’s hard sometimes when we need the money (not saying that’s your case at all) or get into a situation where we meet a client who does nothing to respect those boundaries or he does everything he can (maybe not intentionally) to push those boundaries.

Stand your ground ...stay safe ..

I also noticed when I ran specials (again not saying this is your case) whether that was because I had some ncns stuff affecting my business, or business was slow or I had Mother Nature that brings for a different clientele than you would normally meet with ..sometimes they become good regulars for a quick appt and sometimes they are just unsavory and you’d rather poke your eyeballs out than spend a moment alone with them again bcd

Can you elaborate OP ...Incase al the points I hit are nothing you’re actually talking about..

I think this is a good topic that some guys can learn from ...as long as we keep it drama free

Youre right theyre payin.

But how can a provider not happy in situation or comfortable provide good service.
Its all about u huh ... Lol so when you go in she's just sandpaper. You gonna say the same thing lol Originally Posted by Misty S

My post was not to be disrespectful but straight forward, honest and truthful.

Yes, they are paying. They are the customer. They are there for a specific purpose, a biological, social, and sometimes emotional function.

Most gals keep lube and a gal sometimes has to what she needs to do to turn the sandpaper into a slip n slide.

Have I seen gals who I made a connection with, yes.

Have I seen gals who I've regretted seeing, filled with buyers remorse and realized I was there to just release my $ and DNA. yes.

It's a hobby for most guys. For some it's bragging rights and another notch on their belt on what they couldn't get when they were younger and now have the job with the funds to get any race, age, shape, type of gal they want. A new flavor every week.

For the very rare instance. It's a love connection and 90% of the time doomed to fail.

Happy Hunting, Play Safe, Be Safe, and keep your emotions in check.

I just want to be able to communicate and find out what makes u happy . dont come lay like a corpse

I just want to be able to communicate and find out what makes u happy . dont come lay like a corpse Originally Posted by Misty S

Bingo! That should have been in post #1.

Many gals here would say the same thing.

I'm a screamer. I am loud. I let you know I like it. The neighbors in the next room, apartment, or house across the street think she is trying to vivisect me or shoving a red hot poker up my ass and I think it scares the girls but they all say they love it because guys lay there quiet with grunts, no movement, a dead fuck.


Now that you let it out I'm sure many gals will agree with you.

men don't want to talk they want to F*** and move on.. But they should help out when doing it ..

like dude can you help and move a bit and fake it some .. or is there something we can do to make you happy happen ...

it's called interaction ,,
but some want to just lay there and be hey it's my time my dime ..I'm a dead fish today lol

Can't wait for the bashing to start but... I do care if the lady is comfortable and getting enjoyment. However, I want to feel as though I am wanted too.

This is a slippery slope for some and I understand that. The whole idea of "IOP" is a cheat. Actual passion is always the goal for me and I realize that it requires work on my part. I am more than happy to do that work.

Kissing is very passionate extremely important to me.

I personally think if she is not enjoying the encounter the customer won't enjoy either

If she is comfortable and having a good time, then I will have a blast.

It’s called. IOP
Simple as that.
If we make you have 3 Os and your toes curl are you giiving us call us latter for s booty call on the DL?
Nope you will call but it will be come and pay again.
No matter how your toes curled or your back arched.
IOP is what we care about and the thing is we know it’s only IOP but we still feel good about it and thump our chests.

If she is comfortable and having a good time, then I will have a blast. Originally Posted by Gentlemen Rendezvous

Exactly thank u

So now badassguy goes and writes this "NO REVIEW " SAID I HAVE THE WORST ATTITUDE. I TOLD HIM HE HAD A HORRIBLE ATTITUDE . AND WAS SO RUDE AND DULL.