Got popped for solicitation in DC. He's a cbs sports analyst and former pro basketball player. He set up an outcall through "the use of a computer". Has apologized to wife, family and colleagues.
Disregarding a conversation concerning the legislation of morality, this is my biggest fear in the hobby. I take some of the following precautions: never taking one for the team, scouring this site for every bit of info possible, being aware of my surroundings, and never doing an outcall to my place. In addition, just like all of you, I keep clear my hobby related activities on the Internet and phone discretely hidden. I also never get a hotel room.
I'm usually more relieved after a session is over because it went off without a hitch rather than busting 2 nuts. I usually don't like to see the same provider twice, but I have based on the comfort level. Not sure I ever completely stop seeing ladies, but I'm always nervous about potential consequences of a date going wrong.
(Now Arv will go on a rant saying that I shouldn't worry because the lady is taking all the risk!)