MENS LOUNGE...SAFE HAVEN?

Perfect Gentleman's Avatar
OK If you think this is a stupid question, feel free to slam me.
Why do things seem to go so much smoother in the lounge?
I mean, even subjects that are firestorms in public threads seem to be discussed much more calmly, info.gets exchanged with less shots being taken at each other.
Just wondering if it's my imagination.
Lexxxy's Avatar
No one is trying to impress the Ladies in there and I'm sure there are less measuring contests in there. Some of these Gents on this board are the sweetest things in the world in PM and BCD showing up with presents, gift cards, chocolates, coffee, toys...but as soon as you get them on the board they just suck.
Over 3 years ago I was extremely UTR, not on any boards, I was only known as "the redheaded duo partner". I started seeing a Gent then and just kept in touch with him through a business card he slipped me during a date. He has gotten me jewelry every christmas and birthday, a new luggage set once, purses... all kinds of amazing gifts just an amazing sweet heart. I recently found out what his screen name is on here.. I turned green! I was like "How are they the same person?!?!". This total *^*^*^* on the board( that is even rude to me in threads sometimes) is the same guy that has spent thousands on me over the years?!?!
I don't get it.
pyramider's Avatar
Lexxy,

Darling he was trying to get in your panties.
Lexxxy's Avatar
Lexxy,

Darling he was trying to get in your panties. Originally Posted by pyramider
*Sniffles*I feel so stupid :"( I thought I was special and he loved me and I was his one and only in the entire world! I am going to tell him we need to have an open relationship and see other people now because he is a jerk face Thank you for the advice sweets, in fact, I am going to someone in an hour just to get back at him! *Giggles*
I honestly think that some people get behind a keyboard and feel safe enough to be a snarky persnickety grump because they aren't face to face with anyone.
cowboy8055's Avatar
You're too funny Lexxxy. Sexy pic you have there.
Lexxxy's Avatar
You're too funny Lexxxy. Sexy pic you have there. Originally Posted by cowboy8055
Your icon gave me the idea to put it up actually. LMFAO
pyramider's Avatar
Hey point of order ... I am an old grump everywhere. The icky ain't that special.
pyramider's Avatar
The ladies that have premium access have to be careful not expose themselves in the ML.
Or expose themselves by going too over the top when they do a review of themselves....lol
cowboy8055's Avatar
Your icon gave me the idea to put it up actually. LMFAO Originally Posted by Lexxxy
I gave Lexxxy an idea, should I be worried
wanttohavefun's Avatar
I honestly think that some people get behind a keyboard and feel safe enough to be a snarky persnickety grump because they aren't face to face with anyone. Originally Posted by Lexxxy
Absolutely, I'm on one of the dating sites and one of the women I'm emailing with shared some of the requests that she's gotten via email from men. This is a non-escort who doesn't give any indication that she is one in profile. She's getting requests that are too nasty for me to post here and show up as prohibited activities on most providers list.
No one brags about all of the gifts they receive in the lounge...yawn!
HDrider97's Avatar
Or expose themselves by going too over the top when they do a review of themselves....lol Originally Posted by Celso
They shouldn't have access to this area......Why do some have it??????
The Powder RM dose any of us have access to their area?????
They shouldn't have access to this area......Why do some have it??????
The Powder RM dose any of us have access to their area????? Originally Posted by HDrider97
No way for the computer to tell if your a man or women and anyone can write a review to get premium access. If you want to go to the powder room ok!! You could become a verified provider by making up a false review and submitting it.
They shouldn't have access to this area......Why do some have it?????? Originally Posted by HDrider97
It's really quite easy. All they have to do is join with a male handle, then either buy PA credit or create a dummy review, or a few dummy reviews, to earn PA credit.
Sadly LE can do the same thing......lol