Hobby over 70yo…Another Realm

As you age what you CAN do in an encounter changes for a myriad of reasons. Sessions are not the same as they may have been years earlier…you have entered “another realm” if you want to continue to hobby. Any comments to share from those who would know how your encounter activities have changed across time? More kissing and blow jobs but less athletic penetration fucking…. What’s your fun when there isn’t much wood?
Any comments should be interesting to all here..
We are all getting older….
Iron Butterfly's Avatar
Great subject. For me I have been playing the game for over 20yeas. Things have changed for me for sure. My desire, my quest for new ways to get pleasure. I find that going into “Another Realm “ is the path to my continued existence in the hobby. I am less into full on GFE and more into PSE with kink. Kink or whatever you call it, I call it evolution. This has opened a whole new realm of enjoyment. BDSM without the SB witch will include CBT, Pegging, prostate milking domination, and all of the dark side play that is not strait sex.

Anal pleasure is now more satisfying than FS, BJ, and conventional climax. It just doesn’t feel as good anymore and is lack lust. Don’t get me wrong I can still climax the traditional way but prostate pleasure is like an intense climax over and over until you can’t take it anymore but you also don’t want it to stop. Yes I can climax this way and when I do it’s epic. Climax is not the goal, the experience is. Change is enviable so why not embrace it. This hobby is about self gratification how ever you get it.

IB
The relationship connection becomes more important so I tend to stick with one provider lady. Guess I'm lucky - the sex is still pretty damn good. I'm certainly less inhibited.
DallasRain's Avatar
I have been delving into more sendual playtimes..more intimate times
although i still like my fast paced playtimes too

to me,its ALL good!!
I have been delving into more sendual playtimes..more intimate times
although i still like my fast paced playtimes too

to me,its ALL good!! Originally Posted by DallasRain
anyti.e with Dallas is a great time
Karrine_Kream's Avatar
Nude/topless Massages are always fun
...Climax is not the goal, the experience is....IB Originally Posted by Iron Butterfly
This is the line I've been thinking about lately. And it's hard to find escorts (in my area) who truly understand that. I book multi-hours not because I can still fuck for 3 hours straight, but I want an experience that will lead to an explosive mind numbing climax or 2. It's hard to find those who want to put in that mental work.
Yes! It more of the tease. The experience than the actual fucking.
I find older providers are better at this age. They are not in such a hurry, and willing to explore all the sensual area of the body. Nipples, slow kisses etc.
I like gentlemen of all ages. Older men usually like to take things so and gentle. The ones I have experienced like it nice and passionate. I can go with the flow of the guy.
Never stop fucking just go with the flow regardless of the age I still enjoy being with a woman that like why I do most of them become friends!
I have been delving into more sendual playtimes, More intimate times, i still like my fast paced it's all in good fun.
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I have to credit the very special lady that got me through 13 weeks of radiation treatment for cancer back in late 2016. She defines kink. But unlike a lot of kink providers that are working through their daddy anger issues by ramming a baseball bat up some schlub's ass with no lube, she receives as well as she gives.
Every time I see her it just gets kinkier and kinkier, and she gets wetter and wetter.
Don't ask, she official retired during the Covid pandemic.
She just kept the contact info for a very small number of "special" friends.
I saw her a month ago after several month's absence over the Holidays. I scheduled and paid for 3 hours, she literally wouldn't stop until 5 hours had passed. Still naked as she kissed me goodbye, she wouldn't let go, and whispered in my ear, "I missed you. Let's do this more often!"
Great marketing? IOP? Do I care?
So yes, as I near the 7 decade mark and my ATF is nearing the 5,5 decade mark, I have never had wilder, kinkier, yet more tender and compassionate sex in my life.
She does have an original signature, notarized DNR Order in her incall. We've had "the talk". She says I'll go with a smile on my face...