Why do no providers respond to me?

Am I doing something wrong? There are times when I shop around and email about 5-6 ladies asking for their availability for the upcoming weekend or the next day or something, and I'll be lucky to get maybe one answer me. I have multiple reviews, and I'm P411 verified. This really kills my desire to enjoy this hobby when I find it sometimes almost impossible to schedule with anybody.

Am I doing something wrong? There are times when I shop around and email about 5-6 ladies asking for their availability for the upcoming weekend or the next day or something, and I'll be lucky to get maybe one answer me. I have multiple reviews, and I'm P411 verified. This really kills my desire to enjoy this hobby when I find it sometimes almost impossible to schedule with anybody. Originally Posted by smockdoiley

Maybe you are not researching the ladies properly? I.e. find out who is good at responding etc? I personally find it, although I don't hobby too frequently, maybe once or twice a month for now, I tend to start process ahead, by contacting them well ahead.

Now there was only once that I lady failed to take the appoinment after I asked, but I haven't asked that many either.

Second, some ladies respond to PM, or email or Phone texts better. So you have to pretty much try each method. I think P411 is best way to go, since Gina has a policy on ladies responding to appointment requests ( not PMs, so you have to do the request, according the specifications set by the individual lady I believe, i.e. references or no Oks etc.) from what I understand, since all my appoinments except couple of them have been through P411.

I've never found a lady that responds to text messages, and I almost always get the voicemail if I call. I always thought PM was the preferred method, but I'd say 80% of the emails I send out go unanswered.

The majority only respond when they are broke.

Don't tell anyone, but hookers really don't like most of us fucktards.

If you look, many ladies state their preferred method of communication. Also, you might want to avoid being bitchy. Maybe the lady is with someone else, or is off doing real life stuff.

I'm not bitchy. If they don't respond, I just try another one.

Let's not forget ... posting a thread griping about it, too.

Do you introduce yourself during initial contact, sometimes if you only send a brief message the first time, they may not take your communications seriously.

I hardly reply to txt messages from people I haven't meet and usually give an introduction of yourself, the screening info you have available, and times that are suitable for your schedule. Typing more than a two sentences will help you stand out when a busy girl is checking through her messages.

So now I'm griping? I love this. I'm now a dick because I have a problem with people offering services they don't and won't provide.
Skylar: To be honest, I use to give great messages introducing myself, giving a brief idea of what I'm interested in, asking what times are good, and complimenting the lady or explaining why I was interested in her. But that started to get old spending so much time, and getting nothing in return. So now I leave brief messages like, "Hi sexycutieprincessladyhottiegal chick, my name is John Q, and I'm interested in scheduling an appointment with you. Thanks in advance, John Q"

Maybe you should change your screen name....

Totally kidding

I know how it is. Just keep trying. I think P411 with a backup text works pretty well. Sometimes you just have to keep moving on, or try an AMP.

AMPs are awesome!

This happens to ALL of us...the Vets and the Newbs...nature of this place. From the end of December 'till the middle of Jan., I couldn't get a date...flakes, newbie girls, vacations...
shit happens, man. Ya gotta learn to live with it here.

Hookers love all of us except you, monkmonk. Stop paying them with Monopoly money and they will embrace you more.

Can go along way towards gettn a response....

The majority only respond when they are broke.

Don't tell anyone, but hookers really don't like most of us fucktards. Originally Posted by monkmonk

I and most ladies expect a nice brief hello 2 references, your name phone number, best time to contact you and if your on p411 send a pm. Then we might take you serious as in wanting to set something up. Our time is limited and we cant play 50 pms or text (just as you can't). Many of us do have a civvie life to, so if you think something like that is going to get a response . Guess what It's not working is it?

Make you a nice email save it in your drafts, copy and paste it, personalize with her name. Bam you save yourself some time, and we will take you serious

So now I'm griping? I love this. I'm now a dick because I have a problem with people offering services they don't and won't provide.
Skylar: To be honest, I use to give great messages introducing myself, giving a brief idea of what I'm interested in, asking what times are good, and complimenting the lady or explaining why I was interested in her. But that started to get old spending so much time, and getting nothing in return. So now I leave brief messages like, "Hi sexycutieprincessladyhottiegal chick, my name is John Q, and I'm interested in scheduling an appointment with you. Thanks in advance, John Q" Originally Posted by smockdoiley

Am I doing something wrong? There are times when I shop around and email about 5-6 ladies asking for their availability for the upcoming weekend or the next day or something, and I'll be lucky to get maybe one answer me. I have multiple reviews, and I'm P411 verified. This really kills my desire to enjoy this hobby when I find it sometimes almost impossible to schedule with anybody. Originally Posted by smockdoiley

Yes, you are. Stop asking general questions about whether and when they are available. You'll come across as a tire kicker/window shopper (or as you admit, someone who's "shop[ping] around"). Do your shopping by reading reviews and profiles. Contact the ladies when you're ready to buy. Ask for a session at a specific date and time. You'll still have escorts who don't respond, but you'll get a better response rate.