should I give all this info?

So this escort wants me to send a link to my Facebook page. Should i?
Hell and no
Titan01's Avatar
I agree NO. Why do they want it?
That is blackmail city, never do that
ILuvNips's Avatar
Get yourself a fake Facebook account for your hobby name. iFind some random dudes pics that look like you. t's pretty easy to pick up a bunch of "friends" on there, starting out with strippers and local hiphoppers just dying for friends.
burkalini's Avatar
FUK NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
nwguy123ddd's Avatar
Wtf u should be crazy
Well it depends. What are your thoughts on being blackmailed publicly?
12blue4u's Avatar
WTF why in the hell would you even need to ask this question.
newyorkboy's Avatar
I'll start the shit storm. We've chose the life we lead. This involves some trust between provider and hobbyist. The provider is potentially putting herself at greater risk of being robbed, raped, or potentially killed. Facebook is a social media which can be used to check the validity of the hobbyist contacting them. Think about it; they know who we are; we don't know who they are. They're "secret identity" is what protects them from harm. So, while it puts be somewhat at risk, if I want to see a provider I have to be willing to put myself at some risk. Chances are they're going to go after providers versus hobbyist anyway
The provider is potentially putting herself at greater risk of being robbed, raped, or potentially killed.

As is the client. There are plenty of posts in the alerts forum about ROBs and worse (well, maybe not the raped part). Speaking of worse:
http://www.11alive.com/news/local/we...ient/129364954
http://www.sfgate.com/news/article/P...nt-5607996.php
http://www.buffalonews.com/city-regi...lient-20150303
Unique_Carpenter's Avatar
I'll start the shit storm. We've chose the life we lead. This involves some trust between provider and hobbyist. The provider is potentially putting herself at greater risk of being robbed, raped, or potentially killed. Facebook is a social media which can be used to check the validity of the hobbyist contacting them. Think about it; they know who we are; we don't know who they are. They're "secret identity" is what protects them from harm. So, while it puts be somewhat at risk, if I want to see a provider I have to be willing to put myself at some risk. Chances are they're going to go after providers versus hobbyist anyway Originally Posted by newyorkboy
Sorry NYB,
As others have said: NO. I'll add, especially not for a "new date".
That said, my top two faves do know who I am, but that's after several years of dating them.
Thus, an established trust bond. And, I know their rw as well. Neither are active on this board.
Frankly, there's no better cover when going out for dinner or shopping.
If she screens properly, your FB may come up anyway.....

I would not ASK for it...


QUOTE=looking4fun18;1058190655]So this escort wants me to send a link to my Facebook page. Should i?[/QUOTE]
newyorkboy's Avatar
Which brings me to my point.... any of the QUALITY providers will get enough information to screen you which WILL bring out more than just Name, Rank and Serial Number. They won't walk into a situation unprepared. Now, the Backpage Ho's.... THEY will be at your door without checking nuthin' and a straight razor in their shoe. "Open the door, Daddy". Or invite you to the posh accomodations at 108th and L, right next to the *****house (self modulation).

You want COMPLETE safety. Make love at least three times a week, at least once with your wife!

NewYorkBoy