NL Help

So I am in Laredo for business. I am from across the Reynosa area and haven't been to the boys town in Reynosa in over 10 years. Is it as crazy in NL as it is in Reynosa. I know the rival cartel is over here in NL, and I am scared shitless to go to Mexico but am interested if the girls are worth it and if someone wants to take me lol.....I am Mexican and my main reason for not going is that everywhere I go in all my life I always get confused for someone I am not; I guess I just have that face. I'm never confused with someone they are happy to see, it is always someone I don't want to be. So that is why I am weary of going into Mexico.
Nuevo Laredo is not as crazy as Reynosa by any means. They're two different universes...not sure why...