Bringing A Girl To A Strip Club

  • Ziz
  • 12-15-2019, 01:06 PM
So, I have friend who wants to go to the strip club with me. Just a girl I am talking to. This may be a dumbass question, but hear me out.

If I bring a girl to the club, and we go to VIP together with the dancer, how would the payment work out? For example, what if we are both in VIP with the dancer and I only want the dancer to dance on the girl and not me and I'm just watching the action... would the dancer still get paid $20 per song since she is dancing on one person or would she get paid double ($40) for spending time with both of us... even though she is just dancing on one person?

Never done this before, so I am asking.
Depends on the club. Most places, the dancer will negotiate her rate for the both of you before going back. It will be an hourly, not a per song rate. Her rate is in addition to what the club would charge.

Nude places have a cover for VIP and the dancer charges per song. Again, it’s up to the girl as to what she will charge.
billw1032's Avatar
A lot depends on your expectations and what kind of visit you want. If you just want a few dances, you may be able to find a girl who will do it on a pay-by-the-dance basis. Just be sure you clarify with her what you're looking for and what you'll pay before you start. IMHO dances are $20, period (although standard rate at some nude clubs is $30, I believe). If she wants more you can either pay it, negotiate, or move on to another girl.

OTOH, if you want to spend more time it's better to negotiate a fixed fee. As sandman said, everything with the girl is negotiable. Many will ask for an hourly fee, but I'd advise against it. Girls tend to find a way to waste time and the fun doesn't really start before the hour runs out, then they want to sell you another hour. I've made that mistake twice, and I won't make it again. Instead, I agree on a fixed fee for the entire visit, with an additional promise that I won't keep her longer than a specified time as long as I'm satisfied with the visit.

You may already know this, but VIP cost and facilities vary a lot from club to club. At some clubs (for example BDD) one advantage of shelling out the money for VIP is that the girl gets to skip a stage round. The girl likes this and it is valuable for her, and it is oriented toward those customers who want a longer visit with the girl. If you want a shorter visit then a VIP arrangement like Bucks might be better suited to your purposes.

As always, beware of dancers over counting the number of dances, and beware of the upsell.
limerick304's Avatar
would the dancer still get paid $20 per song since she is dancing on one person or would she get paid double ($40) Originally Posted by Ziz
I've taken a gf many times and done this, paid $20/dance, and the matter of paying double never once came up. Anything can happen, though.
Frosty19's Avatar
Usually when I take a buddy and his wife they usually just ask what the rate is for both of them. I've got thoughts on that approach but itll at least get you what you want
I always pay $20 per dance and tip her well each song if she gets touchy and friendly with the girl.

If they ask for a tip after that just laugh at them.

Most of the girls appear to be into it at BDD and Buck's, where I normally go.
I do this on a very regular basis. Some of the best strip club outings I've had but when I bring a girl with me. I always pay either a flat rate for a specific amount of time or $20 a song regardless of who she's dancing on. They will for sure ask for more if they think you'll pay it. I have had plenty of girl on girl action including eating pussies and never paid more than the $20 per song.
texassapper's Avatar
My fiancee actually introduced me to the strip clubs here in Dallas. I would never have asked a woman to one..but she and her friends her age, enjoy going. She puts money in for the dancers etc. We've picked up strippers on a couple of occasions for threesomes after their shift and on at least two occasions other patrons... my girl enjoys a wide variety of pleasures..lol
My fiancee actually introduced me to the strip clubs here in Dallas. I would never have asked a woman to one..but she and her friends her age, enjoy going. She puts money in for the dancers etc. We've picked up strippers on a couple of occasions for threesomes after their shift and on at least two occasions other patrons... my girl enjoys a wide variety of pleasures..lol Originally Posted by texassapper
Sounds like she is a great girl...
Take a girl to strip club buy her some dances and watch the girl on girl action seen it to many times
I think this would be so hot. Make you want to take an Escort to a club to watch some hot girl on girl lap dances.