What if a guy stumbles across a Missy that has “The look.” (For him.)
Physically she has it all that get's his engine running. Then he reads her posts, shares a PM, email or 2 and she is not just a hot bod but fucks his mind too.
The intro that says “You are so beautiful I can't believe I have found you.” Makes women think,
“Chit, another damn stalker.”
No he says, "I gotta be cool like Discreetgent, on the down low."
So I guess he just gets a meeting, tries not to sweat too much at the encounter and not come in his trousers at the first handshake.