Okay guys! Enough is enough. You want reviews on us girls and then when a client does, you attack him like a pack of wild dogs. My reviews aren't the only ones you have done this on.
I did not write that review. Don't you think if I was going to review myself I would have been spot on with terms and information that matched up? To make my website prices look worthy of my services? I am highly educated with four college degrees.
I don't have GPS either. I know I'm replaceable in the looks category. Behind closed doors is a different story. You have to try it yourself to know for sure. Reviews aren't going to tell you about the chemistry between us.
This site is supposed to be so hobbyist can look out for each other. If you're attacking those doing reviews, then you are not looking out for each other. If you think a review is fake. Flag it and get it investigated. I believe the administrators can see where the post originated from. I'm no techie and I don't own a plane (yet). Even if I did, I couldn't be in Omaha, NE one minute and Wichita, Ks the next.
I'm a single gal, so I'm not having a boyfriend write them for me. Having one only complicated playtime. I get my itch scratched and intimacy needs met by meeting yours. Why would I want to screw that (plus my income) up by being fake, rude, or beachy? I'm not meaning to sound like any of those in this post either. If I do, I apologize for the miscommunication.
Not that it is any of your business, but yes he gets a huge discount because he has been with me for a very long time and is a regular I see often.
Just because someone has not been on this website or Backpage for long, doesn't mean they are new to the business. I have been working in the "sex" industry for over 31 years.
Just to fill you in so MAYBE you might start to feel a little more comfortable:
I started as an exotic dancer in 1985 in Dallas, Texas at Babydolls with a fake ID. I have travelled to seven foreign countries as a feature act from 89-94. Started massage therapy in 1995. Worked as an escort for a service in 97. Kept the massage business going through it all and opened u up my photography business in 2011. All this time moving around between Kansas, Indiana, Oklahoma, Texas, and Georgia.
As those who have actually spent time with me will tell you, I will not lie, cheat, or steal to/from you. I treat you better than I want to be treated. You are the center of my world when you are with me and a complete stranger on the street.
There have been some making comment on my reviews that have not seen me and have even stated I am not their cup of tea. That's fine that I'm not the type you look for. I wish you all the luck in the world finding a provider you like.
We all have our own preferences. That's what makes the world go around. I am glad you are honest about that and don't try to see me just because I'm the newest piece in the market place for this site.
The problem comes in when you attack a client who sees me and accuse him of lying. I realize there are bullies everywhere in life. I had hoped due to the nature of this site, people would act like adults and stick together inside of attacking someone else. After all, we're all here to have a great time together.
If you have a need to attack someone, attack me. I am tough and can handle it. I dont need validated by guys who haven't even met me. My bank account, island in Belize, and my parents do that for me. Besides, like one of the other ladies told me. Haters drive business to you, let them hate. She was dead right. I just can't handle someone else being attacked because of something to do with me.
I didn't intend on this being so long, but I felt pushed to defend someone who is innocent and at the same time give you a better insight into me. Guys aren't going to review me if there are guys out there attacking those who do.
Have fun and be safe!!!
XOXOX
Sarah Renee
- Sarah Renee
- 03-30-2016, 10:12 AM
- khazard
- 03-30-2016, 11:38 AM
Sarah, the problem here is that we are a suspicious bunch. His initial review had no information other than GFE. Most people would not consider CBJ as part of GFE. Then he adds some more information. Things that don't really seem to add up. Claims 3 hours as advertised and then marks it at a 450 dollar discount. Then all of a sudden the review changes again from CBJ to BBBJ. It is all very suspicious and does not add up at all. None of these things are typical of a review and throws up red flags. Coming to your clients "Rescue" with a Re: tag doesn't make things any better.
What gets seen is someone whom has not reviewed any escorts, comes out with no information, and then changes information in ways that do not match up. So we have 2 big suspicions, False review for PA credit, or False review for provider referrals.
So basically between that review and this post, the community may now be leery of you as a provider.
What gets seen is someone whom has not reviewed any escorts, comes out with no information, and then changes information in ways that do not match up. So we have 2 big suspicions, False review for PA credit, or False review for provider referrals.
So basically between that review and this post, the community may now be leery of you as a provider.
- Sarah Renee
- 03-30-2016, 01:57 PM
I appreciate your input. I know this group is suspicious and I can respect that. We all should be. I just hate that it gets all blown out of proportion like it does.
I didn't mention in my original post (and I should have) that the client and I have a SD/SB type relationship. He changed things up because as you can tell, he is new to posting reviews and made mistakes. I would hope that people would understand that.
As far as the CBJ part of the GFE...Disease can be spread through a blowjob just as easily. I would hope a gal being safe all the way around would be a good thing. (Not that I always am)
As far as things not adding up because they got changed, he was told to change them by people on here and now is being ridiculed for doing so. When I was contacted about it and he asked me how much info to give, my exact words were "Be completely honest. You don't have to hold anything back on my account. I know the level of service I have."
I hope this doesn't come across as rude or like I don't care. In fact I do care that no one gets the wrong idea. At the same time, I am not going to run and hide because I hurt someone's feelings for being open and honest. If anything, I am going to never change that. In time you guys will figure out that you can trust me because of it. Even if you shy away for a while now.
I have four other businesses. This is not my main source of income nor will it ever be. Anything that comes from this is used to travel, goof off, and spoil myself. I won't starve or be evicted if things slow down and everyone has to take a little more time to get use to my "living out loud, larger than life" attitude. I will respect it and earn my place just like everyone else.
Besides, I want to find out just how good you guys are with your skills. So far so good. The other is just a bonus perk to the job. (No this doesn't mean I will forego the donation for my time) And you thought we are all only after the green! LOL I may make you believe it is all about you, but I will get mine too! I know how to multitask!
Have fun! Be Safe!
XOXOX
Sarah Renee
I didn't mention in my original post (and I should have) that the client and I have a SD/SB type relationship. He changed things up because as you can tell, he is new to posting reviews and made mistakes. I would hope that people would understand that.
As far as the CBJ part of the GFE...Disease can be spread through a blowjob just as easily. I would hope a gal being safe all the way around would be a good thing. (Not that I always am)
As far as things not adding up because they got changed, he was told to change them by people on here and now is being ridiculed for doing so. When I was contacted about it and he asked me how much info to give, my exact words were "Be completely honest. You don't have to hold anything back on my account. I know the level of service I have."
I hope this doesn't come across as rude or like I don't care. In fact I do care that no one gets the wrong idea. At the same time, I am not going to run and hide because I hurt someone's feelings for being open and honest. If anything, I am going to never change that. In time you guys will figure out that you can trust me because of it. Even if you shy away for a while now.
I have four other businesses. This is not my main source of income nor will it ever be. Anything that comes from this is used to travel, goof off, and spoil myself. I won't starve or be evicted if things slow down and everyone has to take a little more time to get use to my "living out loud, larger than life" attitude. I will respect it and earn my place just like everyone else.
Besides, I want to find out just how good you guys are with your skills. So far so good. The other is just a bonus perk to the job. (No this doesn't mean I will forego the donation for my time) And you thought we are all only after the green! LOL I may make you believe it is all about you, but I will get mine too! I know how to multitask!
Have fun! Be Safe!
XOXOX
Sarah Renee
- khazard
- 03-30-2016, 04:31 PM
Your worth in this industry is what ever you deem it to be. The rules in this industry are what ever you deem them to be. That is all implied. This is really nothing against you, and there will always be clients whom will claim providers are not worth the value placed on the service. But again that is not the case here.
If he got CBJ and then claims it to be BBBJ, then the review is falsified. If he claims he pays the advertised price on your website (750) and then says 300, then the review is falsified.
He should not be changing the review to be what people want to hear. The review should be an honest account and not something that is written and then edited by the provider. It should not be something that makes it sound so much better than it actually is. I mean now that he has stated you will do 3 hours with BBBJ for 300, does that mean you will honor that price for everyone?
That is the concern here. A less than honest, oddly edited, and potentially false first time review. It doesn't add up and that is what people are calling out. Not you specifically as a provider.
If he got CBJ and then claims it to be BBBJ, then the review is falsified. If he claims he pays the advertised price on your website (750) and then says 300, then the review is falsified.
He should not be changing the review to be what people want to hear. The review should be an honest account and not something that is written and then edited by the provider. It should not be something that makes it sound so much better than it actually is. I mean now that he has stated you will do 3 hours with BBBJ for 300, does that mean you will honor that price for everyone?
That is the concern here. A less than honest, oddly edited, and potentially false first time review. It doesn't add up and that is what people are calling out. Not you specifically as a provider.
- Sarah Renee
- 03-30-2016, 04:57 PM
Thank you for the clarification. I get it now. LOL I am blonde after all.
The administrator got involved and posted on the review. Poor guy was just trying to do what he thought was helping me gain more clients. Maybe after our date this weekend, he will be able to post a review that follows the correct manner and not get pounced on. Gotta love his effort, even if it did come back to make things a little rougher for a bit.
I didn't spend the entire 3 hours naked. LOL We went shopping, ate dinner, ect... Like I said it is a SD/SB relationship.
I have a few clients who I will be seeing soon that are established that will hopefully be able to shed the right light on things.
The administrator got involved and posted on the review. Poor guy was just trying to do what he thought was helping me gain more clients. Maybe after our date this weekend, he will be able to post a review that follows the correct manner and not get pounced on. Gotta love his effort, even if it did come back to make things a little rougher for a bit.
I didn't spend the entire 3 hours naked. LOL We went shopping, ate dinner, ect... Like I said it is a SD/SB relationship.
I have a few clients who I will be seeing soon that are established that will hopefully be able to shed the right light on things.
- Guest081519
- 03-30-2016, 08:16 PM
You became upset because some members criticized the review below?
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1673276
That's some reverse white-knighting right there. Have to love a provider that stands up for her client, even though his review was suspicious.
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1673276
That's some reverse white-knighting right there. Have to love a provider that stands up for her client, even though his review was suspicious.
- JackJohnson
- 04-01-2016, 10:58 AM
Your response is appreciated... although I don't necessarily agree that the person was "attacked" in that this is an open forum, with people expressing thought, and many of the people responding are experienced as well.
For my part, I was critical of the posting information, as in not listing the fee "as advertised." Your response tells us that his review was inaccurate, as his fee was not "as advertised" He could of just as well stated "special rate" or something else.
He also has quite a different relationship than his review would indicate, which probably explains why he put GFE 3 different times. In actuality, your familiarity with this particular client means he gets thing the rest of us could not achieve without similar arrangements... I think you said SD/SB
At any rate all of these things contribute to an inaccurate review of the what general hobbyist would receive, and how much it would cost them. This site is a place some people come to make purchasing decisions for a girl's time.
If the information is inaccurate... you will find yourself in a situation where the person expects something and you have to tell them no, that's just something I do for my SD. Again... information exchange is in the title of the site. Accuracy is important, which is my point.
Other's can say it's fake... maybe... I don't know, and we'll never REALLY know, it's just a matter of faith and perception.
For my part, I want accurate information, and disclosure benefits EVERYONE. Even if it is to say...
DISCLAIMER: YMMV, I have a SD/SB relationship with this provider, which probably colors the nature of our interactions.
You know... something...the context helps explain why people were suspicious. Because it seemed inconsistent with OUR experience... that usually means a fake review. Doesn't always though! We can all take that away from this.
Congrats on a successful career in the biz. Understand that its not personal, its just business. Be careful about protesting too much though, that will just prolong the bad publicity... of course... you know what they say... any is better than none!
(that's a joke)
Happy Friday!
For my part, I was critical of the posting information, as in not listing the fee "as advertised." Your response tells us that his review was inaccurate, as his fee was not "as advertised" He could of just as well stated "special rate" or something else.
He also has quite a different relationship than his review would indicate, which probably explains why he put GFE 3 different times. In actuality, your familiarity with this particular client means he gets thing the rest of us could not achieve without similar arrangements... I think you said SD/SB
At any rate all of these things contribute to an inaccurate review of the what general hobbyist would receive, and how much it would cost them. This site is a place some people come to make purchasing decisions for a girl's time.
If the information is inaccurate... you will find yourself in a situation where the person expects something and you have to tell them no, that's just something I do for my SD. Again... information exchange is in the title of the site. Accuracy is important, which is my point.
Other's can say it's fake... maybe... I don't know, and we'll never REALLY know, it's just a matter of faith and perception.
For my part, I want accurate information, and disclosure benefits EVERYONE. Even if it is to say...
DISCLAIMER: YMMV, I have a SD/SB relationship with this provider, which probably colors the nature of our interactions.
You know... something...the context helps explain why people were suspicious. Because it seemed inconsistent with OUR experience... that usually means a fake review. Doesn't always though! We can all take that away from this.
Congrats on a successful career in the biz. Understand that its not personal, its just business. Be careful about protesting too much though, that will just prolong the bad publicity... of course... you know what they say... any is better than none!
(that's a joke)
Happy Friday!
- Sarah Renee
- 04-01-2016, 11:28 AM
I appreciate all the input. I also understand were everyone is coming from.
There are more reviews on me that are from guys like yourself. Several have asked what I wanted them to write about.my response has and always will remain...The truth about your experience with me.
Too many clients have reacted in a amazed ways for me not to have some skill that keeps them coming back.
I am running a special this weekend for new clients to get a chance to see that my service is worth the donation. Kind of a "I'm willing to give a little to gain your confidence and allow you to see for yourself" special.
So far those who have been with me have stated I have some special skills. I don't know how special they are, but I like to have fun and I am a huge tease until it is time not to tease. The rest is up to you to decide.
Are the guys who have had so much to say about my service on here and other review sites willing to put it to the test and find out for themselves? Everyone is different and has their own set of skills. Come show me yours and I'll show you mine!
I will even issue this challenge...This weekend only...if you don't like what you see and feel, walk away in the first 15 minutes (without finish) and pick up your donation as you walk out. Finish or stay longer and donation is mine. You won't hurt my feelings. I am willing to bet you won't walk out.
Just don't waste my time by booking if you know I am not your cup of tea, so to speak. If that doesn't show how secure I am in my abilities and service, nothing will. I also hope you understand, if you walk, booking again will never happen. But then, why would you want to, right?
There are more reviews on me that are from guys like yourself. Several have asked what I wanted them to write about.my response has and always will remain...The truth about your experience with me.
Too many clients have reacted in a amazed ways for me not to have some skill that keeps them coming back.
I am running a special this weekend for new clients to get a chance to see that my service is worth the donation. Kind of a "I'm willing to give a little to gain your confidence and allow you to see for yourself" special.
So far those who have been with me have stated I have some special skills. I don't know how special they are, but I like to have fun and I am a huge tease until it is time not to tease. The rest is up to you to decide.
Are the guys who have had so much to say about my service on here and other review sites willing to put it to the test and find out for themselves? Everyone is different and has their own set of skills. Come show me yours and I'll show you mine!
I will even issue this challenge...This weekend only...if you don't like what you see and feel, walk away in the first 15 minutes (without finish) and pick up your donation as you walk out. Finish or stay longer and donation is mine. You won't hurt my feelings. I am willing to bet you won't walk out.
Just don't waste my time by booking if you know I am not your cup of tea, so to speak. If that doesn't show how secure I am in my abilities and service, nothing will. I also hope you understand, if you walk, booking again will never happen. But then, why would you want to, right?