Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddy websites, etc

Back on ASPD there was a great post by Shyster Jon about Sugar Daddy websites and or how to become a Sugar Daddy. What to look for and where to look for Sugar Babies, etc. How to meet them, how to negotiate, etc. If the contents of that thread are still around I would love to see it again.

While I am not actually in the market for a Sugar Baby, the reason for my post is because of an opportunity that has unexpectedly come in play for me. Not a girl from a website, and she is not a Provider. But the opportunity is real and within my price range should I decide that I am ready or willing to have a Sugar Baby. And she is the young spinner type of girl that I am attracted to. Anyway, I am not even sure if I should take the plunge, but would love some negotiating advice.

Plus advice on how to set expectations, should I decide this is something to pursue. Heck, maybe the advise would just convince me to keep seeing Providers instead. Who knows.

Shyster Jon, eccie needs you!

I just recently ended a SD/SB relationship that lasted almost one year. Initially I provided a steady income stream (x number of dollars everytime I saw her). This worked very well and then over time I began fronting her the money at the 1st of the month so she could pay her rent (she has a underpaid full time job and is a non pro). Gradually over several months she put forth significantly less effort in our seeing each other and I finally gave up. My advice is NOT TO EVER FRONT THE MONEY.
just my 2 cents !

One of the points made by Shyster John in his tutorial was... never front the money... keep spacing it out as you go along (for exactly the reasons noted above)

Even though I haven't used it lately...Sugardaddie.com..Was a good meeting place for sugar babes and daddies to interact..
You guys should try it out..

Thanks to omaha2dallas for his kind comments. I enjoyed nearly eight years on ASPD and I'm excited and grateful for this site. I hope to contribute every once in awhile to threads related to hobbying, as well as write about legal issues that come up in our community.

My original post on SD-SB relationships has been reproduced in The Time Capsule forum, and I've added some of my thoughts from my experiences since I originally posted the thread in June 2009.

[ame="http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=9404"]Shyster John's "So you think you want a sugar baby? - ECCIE - Your source for escort reviews[/ame]

The pay as you go philosophy is spot on. Human nature is to do as little as possible to get by.... In this situation, the nookie will flow slowly if you are paying up front. Keep 'em honest and you will get a decent return on your investment.