ATF's and older men

I am an older gentleman 60+, few pounds overweight and can't do the things I could when I was 30
I have never used a provider until now.
I was looking for an affair with out all the strings and drama. However I wanted a bit more of a connection than just that. I wanted to connect with someone that would connect with me. I guess be an ATF.
I now believe this is unreasonable thinking on my part.. The favorites of a provider I believe would be much younger, fit and of course great "ability" (goes along with fit). I have none of that . After all why wouldn't a provider want someone like themselves. Why settle for less? So I now believe the best I can expect is to meet some wonderful women and have fun but expect no more.
My questions are:
Do the older gentlemen find it the same way?
Do the providers find their ATF's are not the older men but mostly the younger fit ones?

ziggy, I thinck I get what you are asking. However, for you to find an ATF, sir, you need to see a few different ladies. How else will you know if she is your favorite?

Sounds like you are looking for a real gf and this is NOT the place for that. Best of luck to you.

I will ad, though, there are plenty of our outstanding ladies here that would welcome your age and size. So, don't let that deter you.

Believe it or not, your marital status will be the most significant determinant of the nature of your connection with a Sister of Mercy.

A strong personal connection seems to develop almost inevitably between two unmarried people who share intimacy over a long time span. Unless, that is, you begin and engage in the relationship with that as a goal. If you don't have any kind of goal other than living in the moment and doing the right thing for her, the closeness will follow. If you're a man on a mission you will run her off.

If, however, either of you is married, all I can envision out of that would be a best case of serial physically satisfying commercial transactions; worst case, family destruction.

Now that I've outlived all my friends except my dick, the only friends I have are hookers, and a couple of them are as good a friend as any I ever had.

Sorry, I ment to post this in co-ed group. Please respond to it in there.
Thank you (senior moment)