Guys... We ARE available even if we don't post!!!

I had a guy say earlier that he didn't know we were available if we didn't post. He thought the only time we were available was when we posted. Lol.

We are allowed one ad per week & one per weekend. Most of the time our ads get buried or we are busy with regulars, class, non hobby work, family etc. I can't speak for anyone but myself, but I'd venture to guess most ladies are still around even if they don't post. I never get upset for someone contacting me! I may or may not be available at that specific time, but I'm not going to get upset for you trying!!

There are many ladies who only post an ad occasionally, yet are still around.
Unless a lady has that they won't be available in their profile or signature, she may be available. Nothing wrong with asking your preferred provider if she's available. If she's not available, she may either ignore the request completely if she gets online to see it or she may simply say that she's not available.

I had a guy say earlier that he didn't know we were available if we didn't post. He thought the only time we were available was when we posted. Lol.

We are allowed one ad per week & one per weekend. Most of the time our ads get buried or we are busy with regulars, class, non hobby work, family etc. I can't speak for anyone but myself, but I'd venture to guess most ladies are still around even if they don't post. I never get upset for someone contacting me! I may or may not be available at that specific time, but I'm not going to get upset for you trying!! Originally Posted by The Infamous One

Its totally understanable about the whole school thing.
But you should pm me sometime when you "aint got no class"

There are many ladies who only post an ad occasionally, yet are still around.
Unless a lady has that they won't be available in their profile or signature, she may be available. Nothing wrong with asking your preferred provider if she's available. If she's not available, she may either ignore the request completely if she gets online to see it or she may simply say that she's not available. Originally Posted by TemptationTammie

When my preferred provider tells me she is unavailable, she often checks about alternate times that might work for both of us, or in some cases, she has actually contacted a girl friend (with my permission, of course) to see if the other provider could accommodate me at the date/time I desired.

^^^ That is the perfect ATF lady. I have one of those too. That is why I continue to go see her.

Sam

That's why I love the snatch thread. It's a daily advertising that keeps our 2 second attention spans refreshed on times.

Ya some men do that 2 sec attention span refreshed. Others are just tired of seeing the same names there and look for something different.

To me, it is a given that providers might be available outside of the moments when they post an ad. Especially since an ad can be posted only once every several days. Though I do prefer a well thought out inquiry (even if it's brief) over an "are you available" message.

The irony is even when I'm definitely available, if one doesn't put forth the effort to distinguish his inquiry from one a time waster or fantasy booker would send, I'll likely ignore the message.

LOL, ya, most are like "If it isn't forced in my face then I will forget" Me on the other hand have been playing my trip (for this weekend) and I'm turned off by those who are always in everyones face (i.e....respond to 80% of ISO's)

Given the limitations of posting once a week in PA and Weekend, many ladies may not know what their daily schedules/activities may be available for the hobby during the following week.

I have seen some experienced providers post good details, pictures and general information about their services and schedule in PA/Weekend, and then they update current availability and any specials with posts in SNATCH and ISO, with a link back to their most current PA/Weekend for additional information that does not frequently change. Some will link back to their showcase if that has most current information.

Keep SNATCH and ISO short and sweet with easy links to the details, and most of us hobbyist "knuckleheads" will figure it out and you will not need to provide too much extra guidance for us to schedule an appointment or follow any particular incall instructions you may have.

Any monger worth seeing should take a few minutes to research a provider's Showcase and her recent PA/Weekend posts, as well as take a look in the SNATCH/ISO forum to find any specials she may be offering--and don't forget to ask for that special rate, if advertised, as many donation rates are simply too high these days.

CoEd is also a great place to see who is not busy and needs business.

If your one of my ATF's, I'll always try to make some available time. Whether she's across the country or across the world.

Shore, mebbe yore available when ya ain't postin' but will ya let a feller stikkit in yer butt?

Some of us guys realize that you're not just whores lounging around all day in your room at the red light district waiting for one of us tricks to call.

You ladies are also mothers, lovers, and in some cases dare I say a wife?
In other words, you have your own lives.

YMMV on size DD.