Abuse of ladies by customers

Quark's Avatar
  • Quark
  • 07-30-2019, 08:04 AM
Yes I used the word abuse. Some of the customers are playing rough when it is not welcomed. I have heard complaints and seen bruises.

Many are asking for BBFS when it is not offered.

One threatened the woman he would write a bad review if she did not do what he wanted. He was disappointed!

I am simply incapable of understanding how a man would try to force a woman to do something she does not want to. Read reviews and find a provider who willingly gives what you want. How hard is that?

If you see someone new, show some respect, actually show a lot of respect. You expect them to pretend to like you and show you a good time. Accept what is on their menu.

And if one more idiot asks about so called catholic service when the review clearly indicates otherwise, I will shout at the screen.

And to the owners and managers of the AMPs. Why are you not protecting your girls? Telling them if they have a problem with a customer then need to solve it in the room is stupid. Management should be there to resolve issues. Tell the bastard to leave and never come back.

I doubt if the offenders will read this or change their bad behavior. But if you agree with me, post a comment. If the owners see that enough of us want to have good clean and safe fun, they may change what they are willing to tolerate.
Ghostrider's Avatar
I agree, I also think that some of the owners do not want the bad press and with some of the posters here, it’s all that they will get. Nothing should be forced on the girl, she agrees or doesn’t agree. Focus on the facts. Simple as Shower No a shower! Condom, No condom! Cum here or here!

You get more with the more respect you give the lady. Push her boundaries but when she says No. stop and move on!!

The Amp should not even know your on this board!!!
I saw this coming.
All BB service should not be posted here and leave it as that it was offered to you because you are special to that girl.
Guys should go AMP knowing TS is preferred or required by the lady. It will make both parties more comfortable knowing that you are clean and not LE.
If ladies wants rough, she will initiate. Most of these Koreans don’t want rough.

I am sure/hope whoever acted rough is captured on cam and shared.
I've been offered BB the last 3 times I've visited a spa (only one, Tiny, was a repeat visit). I declined each time. I still don't understand the game of Russian Roulette some men want to play with their dicks.
Torito's Avatar
Agree with OP completely.
In my opinion those who abuse these women are woman haters who like to rape, but not go to jail.
PussySnob's Avatar
I agree, I also think that some of the owners do not want the bad press and with some of the posters here, it’s all that they will get. Nothing should be forced on the girl, she agrees or doesn’t agree. Focus on the facts. Simple as Shower No a shower! Condom, No condom! Cum here or here!

You get more with the more respect you give the lady. Push her boundaries but when she says No. stop and move on!!

The Amp should not even know your on this board!!! Originally Posted by Ghostrider
The Fuckn irony. So when you promote bbfs every hour every day that’s ok.
You are guilty of this abuse. Pushing that shit. You should hold yourself in contempt.
Bobby Ghostrider aoi and the plethora of extra handles that were created to promote bbfs. Let’s all be clear and concise you are guilty.
Quark's Avatar
  • Quark
  • 07-30-2019, 10:25 AM
Consensual risky behavior is not abuse. Not unless one partner knows they are infected. What I am focused on is men trying to force their desires on providers.
Bestman200600's Avatar
The ladies that work at the amps are like all other women. They want to be treated well and not abused. They have friends. The ladies I know are treated well and they return the same to me. Some have wanted a lot more than just a one hour date. If you treat them poorly they will leave and say screw you.
CosbyCricket's Avatar
I agree with everything completely. Especially the part about the management not getting involved when they really should. I've discussed the topic outside the store with a handful of girls and they all kind of shrug their shoulders and accept it as a sad reality. If we could just get the damn hobby legalized.... but that's a whole nother rabbit whole I won't go down.

Depending on the store, the girls are more or less expected to just do what the customer wants. Management needs to step in and handle business when the girl isn't comfortable. Unfortunately, they won't change. Same reason they won't change their store hours to allow the girls to get a respectable amount of sleep. It's all about the $$$. If a girl doesn't like it, she's easily replaced by a rookie from Korea.

BBFS is fine as long as the girl and guy are both okay with it. By okay with it I mean the girl offers it freely first. If she pulls out a rubber and you ask her to not use it, then she probably isn't truly okay with it and should suit up. If she says no and you attempt to coerce her, bribe her, or worse - secretly remove the condom - then you're a piece of shit.
The Fuckn irony. So when you promote bbfs every hour every day that’s ok.
You are guilty of this abuse. Pushing that shit. You should hold yourself in contempt.
Bobby Ghostrider aoi and the plethora of extra handles that were created to promote bbfs. Let’s all be clear and concise you are guilty. Originally Posted by PussySnob
You need to learn to ignore if you know someone is promoting. Whatever you see, we can see.
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You need to learn to ignore if you know someone is promoting. Whatever you see, we can see. Originally Posted by cavmen
You need to learn I was sent here from the gods. To get rid of the promoters and get rid of all the fake handles that are in this forum. Like the one you created for
Promoting and bumping Blue spa. And a few of the main culprit will either be timed out or banned. People take heed. The promoting and fake handles will stop. You’ve been warned.
jkc7594's Avatar
I heard similar stories.

They are someone’s precious daughters and sisters. They are not a toys
We have to respect their preference, we are paying for their hours(time) not for something else.
Service is offered by them, we can’t ask or force what they don’t want to.
If we keep doing like this no one want to stay longer or coming.

Please treat them well.
Add not to suffering.
Do not give in to judging.
“Take Head” (PussySnob)
Happy Friendship Day.
PussySnob's Avatar
Add not to suffering.
Do not give in to judging.
“Take Head” (PussySnob)
Happy Friendship Day. Originally Posted by BuddhaReal
You’re on the list. Bob rider Aoi
When I met Bobbie at Lucky Haven earlier this month, she told me that she liked me because I'm gentle & kind towards her unlike other men who are rough & aggressive.

I was touched by her compliment but I also felt sad that there are men out there who don't treat these gorgeous ladies with respect and kindness. These ladies trust us to treat them gently and we shouldn't abuse that trust.