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if A Provider has a active website like a dot com not no escortname@escortbiz.com Great Reviews Great Repution,So the golden ruke if she does not shoew her face ads you do not have the right to email her saying she has to show her face to prove she not cop and if you email her for a year ...And you someguy with a burner and fake email adress
Can i had to hold a guy for hour when he show up in whoppi and had paper money in the evelope.I ask him if i can search his car for anything value and if some can bring him a cancled fee for me to let him go, After a hour and went thru contacts .. I let him go..


Learn the correct conduct when dealing with an escort. What and what not to do if you want to be a great client.


Wherever you find your escort, research her. Does she have a website, does she have ads going back at least 6 months, does she have reviews (although some escorts do not like being reviewed)? Google her name and phone number or email before contacting her. Also expect her to want to screen your for her own safety; be respectful and provide whatever info she requires.


Be on time, or call if you will be more than 10 minutes late. Unless you are giving notice of a time change well in advance, expect to pay for the time you missed. If your 60 minute date was supposed to start at 7 and you get there at 7:15, STILL LEAVE AT 8. Please respect the escort's time and schedule, and don't linger. Even if the escort genuinely enjoyed the time with you, it is annoying and awkward if you overstay. If you want more time, ask and if she says yes, expect to pay for it at the rate previously discussed.

Know what's on menu in advance and do not deviate from it. Escorts use code words like, CIM, greek, GFE, PSE... google these before you call or email.

Never ever discuss sexual acts or money in person. For your own safety! If it is a sting, they will try to get you to say what you are there for out loud. When in doubt, kiss the girl or ask her to get more comfortable. If she complies, green light!

Money first always! If you must refer to it at any time, call it a gift. Do not hand the money directly to her, set it down where she can see it, or wherever you were told to beforehand, (often by the sink in the bathroom).
Be nice, treat her like a lady, and be respectful. She is a real person, you don't need to be intimidated and you certainly shouldn't feel superior either.
Don't feel like you need to blow her mind sexually. While noble, and very sweet, she is there for you. Do not hold back at the beginning because you want to last for her, this often ends in not being able to finish at all. Which nobody wants. You can take care of her after if you enjoy that, but no pressure here either.Ask her if she would like to be reviewed. If yes, keep it simple, and do not fabricate. If you say she did something that she didn't, other clients may expect that same service in the future.Always be clean!!! Very very clean. If you just came from work or whatever, take a quick shower at the location. You don't want to be known as the 'Smegma-Guy'.
Bring wine or a gift. Escorts love this and you will go right to the front of the line, hopefully. Wine can help to get you both relaxed and comfortable, and is a good social lubricant when you have to make all the magic happen in an hour or two. You can ask in advance what she likes, and don't forget the glasses! Gift certificates are always a safe bet if you want to bring a gift, stores like Amazon, Victoria's Secret, Bath and Body, etc. If you know the escort well, you may want to give her more personalized gifts like lingerie, jewelry, and perfume. ****Super extra bonus points if you buy her drinks/take her to dinner first, (WHILE she is being compensated for her time at her usual rate). If you really enjoy her company and can afford to do this, this is the best way to make her feel special. Remember she is on the clock though, and do not ever ask her to meet for free. That is a line neither of you should cross.
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DO EXPECT her to check your i.d. carefully. She does not want to get busted. Don't be surprised if she asks you to take off pants and shorts to expose your penis. She thinks that will prove you aren't a cop (although it really doesn't). DO expect to feel like a clumsy idiot standing there half-naked!

DO EXPECT her to turn and leave if you use any specific words that can lead to her arrest. "Hey, babe, how's about a quick blow job?" will make most escorts leave quickly, both because those words describe an illegal act and because you'd be proving you're a crude dumbass. You can NOT use any such words...at least not until you both have decided you aren't with a cop and are naked. Then you can get more specific.

These initial moments are tricky. You both share common desires --- you, sex; her, cash --- but you also both share common apprehensions because this is an illegal activity, and for all she knows you're a cop and for all you know she is a cop. My suggestion to you is to let her lead the way here. After all, she's a pro and she knows the drill. To ease the way, you might even smile winsomely and confess this is a first for you. Another way to ease through those awkward moments is to sit next to her and gently touch her arm, slowly to a leg, and let things develop.

You've probably caught on that these safe-guards are all on her side: she is discovering if you're a cop, but you haven't an equal opportunity to discover if she's one. How to get around that? I suggest you deal with escorts you _know_ have been in business for a goodly length of time (you've seen their webpages for several months or more) and who have been reviewed positively in the various sites.

I've found that it helps ease her suspicions if I offer to meet her in the parking lot and take her through the lobby up to my room. I do that because if I were an escort, I'd find that trip through the lobby a bit awkward, but I imagine the professionals are used to it. Sometimes I've pointed out my car to show it has out-of-state tags, although I'm not keen on giving away that clue to who I am.

DO EXPECT that she may, especially if she's from an agency, phone in to let them know she's there and that things are going well. Also DO EXPECT that she will call after the session is finished to let them know she is OK and leaving for the next session or whatever.

DO EXPECT to pay her for her time upfront, of course. The amount varies by region and by escort, but in general it ranges from around $110 (in a place like West Virginia) to $500 or more (in large cities or with one of the "super-stars"). Cash. She won't take your personal check. If she's wise, she also won't take your plastic (that can lead to a bust because it crosses interstate lines). Some will advise you to leave the money lying on the dresser, working on the premise that is less illegal than actually giving it to her. I'm not sure I perceive the distinction, but what the hell. Best course of action is to just place the money on a bedside table or hand directly to her without saying anything. Repeat don't say anything.

DO EXPECT that once she has received the fee AND is satisfied you are not a cop (and/or not a crude s.o.b.), that she may go into the bathroom, often telling you to "get comfortable" which means you undress. This is a good time to put on all locks on the motel room door, if you haven't already done so. She'll return from the bathroom naked, or maybe in bra and panties. You can, if this is your thing, tell her that you want to undress her.

DO EXPECT her to insist you wear a condom (or rubber, if you prefer that name). If she doesn't insist on that, I'd bail out on the premise she takes way too many risks. She will have one, but I suggest you bring your own, several in case one breaks or whatever. Not one that has a foul taste.

DO EXPECT to treat her like a human being, not an object. Offer her a coke or a drink. See what she wants. Hell, be _nice_. In every walk of life and in every profession people who treat others with kindness, compassion and caring generally get better service.

DO EXPECT her to treat you professionally. She sees you as a client, not her boyfriend. If you want moon/june romance, stick with a girl-friend. She is a pro and she knows about everything you can possibly suggest, so she'll do those things. Not ALL of those things. Most escorts will not accept anal sex ("Greek"), for example. But she will be ready for you to want oral sex ("French") or to put your penis between her breasts ("Russian") and such.

DO EXPECT her to be ready to leave after you've climaxed once. If you are lucky and connect with a quality, professional escort she may well offer a second climax OR she may stay the remainder of the hour and offer to massage your back or just to chit-chat. Consider a "second chance" OR filling out the hour to be a bonus.

DO EXPECT to let her know you appreciated the session, verbally and perhaps financially, if you feel so inclined. A tip, though not always expected is ALWAYS appreciated! Doesn't have to be a huge tip, I typically tip from $20-$50 for a one hour session. More for longer sessions or "extra-special" service.

What Not To Expect

DO NOT EXPECT anything without a condom. Plain common sense!

DO NOT EXPECT to perform oral sex on her. Many escorts don't like that.

DO NOT EXPECT deep kisses. Most escorts hate that, and besides, she's not your girl-friend you're trying to seduce.

DO NOT EXPECT to insert your fingers in her pussy. That hurts.

DO NOT EXPECT "Greek" or anal sex, unless she specifically mentions or advertises such a specialty. If available, it will generally be expected that you may pay an additional fee for the "extra" time.
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You know enough to be a danger to yourself. How about quit trying to coach up the ladies and learn from your peers. While you are at it posting taint photos is recommended.
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i would stop a listen to my peers but they seem not to care i am person too.i went on to long in my life to a push over.i have my high school dimploa at 35 and i have changed all by habits..So i care about the ladies ..just cause we do what we do for leaving does mean people should take the ladies for greated kind for their weekeness,So if you feel iam in wrong that is on you..But Helpful info and giving the ladies tools in the field to help with jerks or the confience to stand up for their themselves ..if my info helps help escorts to be stern and give them some knowledge ..That makes my day.. i am not selfish but i know what it is like to young uneducated wet behind the ears and doing this field on mjy own since 2009 so how can you judge if i am trying to help
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This list is crap for white knights. "Do not expect anything without a condom?" Fuck that.
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what is taint photos Originally Posted by ActionAngie

The taint is the key to understanding the universe.
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I've found that it helps ease her suspicions if I offer to meet her in the parking lot and take her through the lobby up to my room. I do that because if I were an escort, I'd find that trip through the lobby a bit awkward, but I imagine the professionals are used to it. Sometimes I've pointed out my car to show it has out-of-state tags, although I'm not keen on giving away that clue to who I am. Originally Posted by ActionAngie
How long have you been a man pretending to be a woman?
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DO EXPECT to pay her for her time upfront, of course.

DO EXPECT her to be ready to leave after you've climaxed once. Originally Posted by ActionAngie

If her time has been paid for, she needs to stay for the time paid for. He's paying for your time, not a nut.
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I am Premium Escort I am one of your peers and Life Coaching...We Providers Take care of one another are you hating?
Your From Texas Do Wonder See Boy Up Here in Maine ,We girls That Are Premium Providers Do not Play ,We are Smart ,Driven ,Independent and I reckon
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How You like them apples !
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I am Premium Escort I am one of your peers and Life Coaching...We Providers Take care of one another are you hating?
Your From Texas Do Wonder See Boy Up Here in Maine ,We girls That Are Premium Providers Do not Play ,We are Smart ,Driven ,Independent and I reckon Originally Posted by ActionAngie
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I am Premium Escort I am one of your peers and Life Coaching...We Providers Take care of one another are you hating?
Your From Texas Do Wonder See Boy Up Here in Maine ,We girls That Are Premium Providers Do not Play ,We are Smart ,Driven ,Independent and I reckon Originally Posted by ActionAngie
What?
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funny no I am female I have been a member of this site since 2013 how long have you taken advantage of Escorts ..How long Have you Buying Tail ,Do have all your teeth Do you do donate your time to the homeless I do Do You care about others well being ,Do you know C.P.R and teach the the homeless and Batter Woman Shelter ,So I more proof I am a female I have 88 reviews t.e.r and have 15 here.. You Know This Stupid that you down me cause I am trying to help my peers !! I am rubber your clue whatever you say bounces off me sticks to you.. Sticks and Stones May Break my bones But words will never Hurt Me... God Does not like Ugly ... And Son Your Is Ugly !!
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why are hating cause I am a fellow premium provider trying to help my peers out.. I remember being Young and Alone Doing this Career,So if my Info helps one lonely woman that makes my day