Ok, I need to know

I have been in the hobby for a few years now, and I have met some really Kool people here. There have been times where I go to meet someone new for the first time, and I lean in for that first kiss, and ZAP %#$ BOOM #!@ DAMMIT BATMAN, we need a breath mint here. I need to know if this is a simple sign stating that kissing is off the table? Or, is it just either a smoker or someone who cannot tell their breath would stop a charging bull. I think I handled the situation properly by just evacuating their mouth quickly, but how would you handle it, would you just rip it like a band aid, and ask them hey go brush dem pearly whites or what? Some people could get very offended if they are called out right in the moment. I also feel that it could set a bad tone for the hour of power. Should I sent a text message stating that hey look I am kind of sensitive to smells, so please be fresh? What would you do? I do not smoke, but smokers breath I can kind of deal with, but bad breath, Nah man huge turn off.

JAce

Im not sure what is the right course of action in that situation because it can be a mood killer (which is why i just dont kiss un general) but i can tell you this.

People that get use to a certain smell on their body cant smell it on them regardless of what it is. I forget the scientific reasoning for it but it is a thing. If you say put a massive ammount of your fav deodorant on for example you wont really notice that you put too much on or the smell at all as its on your body, but others sure will because its a new smell.

Your nose gets use to the smell because its always on you and therefore they legit have no idea if they smell bad or put too much deodorizer/perfume on. Same goes for bad breath if not more so. Your mouth is closest to your nose so everytime you open it the smell is going to your nose. People with bad breath do not know they have bad breath unless you tell them.

With that being said it is probably best to tell them they have bad breath. If you dont they will continue to think they dont and will continue to have bad breath. If they take it ad an insult then thats on them, but you are being nice by telling them. Its like telling someone they have there shirt on backwards, have a sticky note on their back, or their zipper is untied. Is that rude or mean to point out? No because the other person did not know it.

If you really want to be sensitive about it tho offer them a strong mint the instant you introduce yourself even if the person might have emaculate breath. Btw, i rccomend smart mouth. Very good mouthwash even if its expensive.

Yikes, lol

In the future, always carry a minty and a fruity gum with you. During the greeting phase, nicely offer the provider a choice of whatever selection you have. It will look more like a courtesy than an embarrassment. To further sell it, whether she accepts or not, enjoy a piece for yourself. This will show that you were just being kind in offering, and considerate towards her olfactory nerves as well.

She must’ve went “nose blind” yikes!!

I just stop kissing him. Pull out a vibrator. Ask if he’s like to watch some porn. So forth and so on.

I just stop kissing him. Pull out a vibrator. Ask if he’d like to watch some porn. So forth and so on.

Say you want an Altoids blow job. Win-win.

Coming back to this thread, because the cashier at the grocery store today from maybe 3-4 FEET away. Holy crap! That breathe stunk!

Always keep your teeth clean and mouth minty fresh...You can brush your teeth over 1,000 times with one tube of toothpaste. Just kidding.. lol Not 1,000 but you get my point. I keep scope in both bathrooms, and I am not afraid to use it nor ask the Gen't. to use it....


"Be true to your teeth or they will be false to you"...


Good body washes and soaps are well worth the investment....Me personally I love all flavors of Dove. I also use good bubble baths and water softeners.

When I bathe I use a light body spray and a pinch of perfume. (If the guy doesn't mind)
Too much cologne or perfume is a turn off.

But if I had a problem in the hygiene dept. I definitely would like a the client to tell me. If one doesn't know then they cannot correct it. Simple as that.

Sparing ones feelings doesn't help you or her... If she gets offended then I am sorry she needs to be. That is basic 101.

M.M.

I had a similar experience with a provider, but not involving breath. It was middle of June last year, and her vehicle at the time only had 2/40 ac. She postponed our date by 30 minutes because she had to run to the Westbank, which turned into 45. When she finally made it back, started our date, she laid back on the bed with her arms above her head. Damn! "BO" was in full force. I told her I needed to reschedule, I was already running late and couldn't wait for her to clean up. She asked why, and I tried to put it as delicately as possible, but she blew up regardless. It only happened that one time, but it's stuck with me.

I had a similar experience with a provider, but not involving breath. It was middle of June last year, and her vehicle at the time only had 2/40 ac. She postponed our date by 30 minutes because she had to run to the Westbank, which turned into 45. When she finally made it back, started our date, she laid back on the bed with her arms above her head. Damn! "BO" was in full force. I told her I needed to reschedule, I was already running late and couldn't wait for her to clean up. She asked why, and I tried to put it as delicately as possible, but she blew up regardless. It only happened that one time, but it's stuck with me. Originally Posted by MrBig1994

You must not have reviewed her?

Gross..

Its obviously clear..

She dont care?
Its her money..
Her pretty self.. dont care how YOU think..

Tell her BY WALKING OUT THE DOOR..

Period..
J.s annie

Nah, I didn't review her, but I really don't review everyone I see. I will bring it up the next time I see her.