So, thoughts on dirty talk? ;)

TristanThick's Avatar
I’m talking erotic teasing, foreplay - not like someone just tossing out “cuss words”. Massive turn on. But sometimes there are words and phrases you can throw out to take something from pretty damn good to absolutely mind-boggling.

Then again, I like to be “taught”. Especially by a woman who’s confident and knows what she wants. Some degree of role play, I guess.

Ladies, what are yall’s thoughts on this one? I’ve asked with varying degrees of response from super enthusiastic to “eh, not my bag, babe...I don’t know what to say!”

Go!
TristanThick's Avatar
Ladies? Nobody? Guess I need to get my rep up again. Had to re-register post shutdown. Just tryna’ keep the sexy conversation going.
Sir Lancehernot's Avatar
I've not had many talk dirty to me in my 20+ years in the hobby. I think that's because I'm rather pasive to begin with, coupled with my upbringing, which leads me to treat a woman as a lady and not as a whore ... until she gives me a reason to do the latter. Women tend to follow that lead, I think, so I don't get much of a PSE, even from women known for it.

Having said all that, I highly recommend Heidi Fly. I'm pretty sure I could call her all sorts of things to her face, and she wouldn't complain and might get turned on. Never met a woman like that.
TristanThick's Avatar
I've not had many talk dirty to me in my 20+ years in the hobby. I think that's because I'm rather pasive to begin with, coupled with my upbringing, which leads me to treat a woman as a lady and not as a whore ... until she gives me a reason to do the latter. Women tend to follow that lead, I think, so I don't get much of a PSE, even from women known for it.

Having said all that, I highly recommend Heidi Fly. I'm pretty sure I could call her all sorts of things to her face, and she wouldn't complain and might get turned on. Never met a woman like that. Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot
I understand that, SL. And what I’m referring to here is not treating a woman any less than, in any way, I’m just thinking having fun talking each other up - not degrading anyone. Lol. That isn’t kosher in my book either - not in the least.
TristanThick's Avatar
I've not had many talk dirty to me in my 20+ years in the hobby. I think that's because I'm rather pasive to begin with, coupled with my upbringing, which leads me to treat a woman as a lady and not as a whore ... until she gives me a reason to do the latter. Women tend to follow that lead, I think, so I don't get much of a PSE, even from women known for it.

Having said all that, I highly recommend Heidi Fly. I'm pretty sure I could call her all sorts of things to her face, and she wouldn't complain and might get turned on. Never met a woman like that. Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot
I think this is more about the “making love to the brain” than anything. That anticipation and build up is what can send me over the edge...personally speaking. But like I said, I may just have a fetish.
DallasRain's Avatar
well hell yeahhhhhh a BIG turn on is dirty talk by both parties...especially by me! my FAVE word starts with F!
I think there are phrases that ignite my fire....who the heck knows what they are right now....
TristanThick's Avatar
Analeese, would love to know. <3 :P

DallasRain, oh, I have a healthy penchant for the “F” word too. It’s sexy whenever a woman refers to her any part of her body confidently. Tell me about it and how you’re using it. Ugh, so unbelievably blazing. Confidence is sexy, period, honestly.
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I've not had many talk dirty to me in my 20+ years in the hobby. I think that's because I'm rather pasive to begin with, coupled with my upbringing, which leads me to treat a woman as a lady and not as a whore ... until she gives me a reason to do the latter. Women tend to follow that lead, I think, so I don't get much of a PSE, even from women known for it. Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

Nail on the head, SL. I feel the same way. I don't comply well when a lady tells me the spank her or pull her hair. I don't care for porn where the women are being slapped, either. It's a turn off for me.



That being said, I do like the conspiratorial type of dirty talk, like when she tells me how big my cock is (an exaggeration, let's not lie), how much she's enjoying it, where she wants me to cum, etc. Pampered by Pamela was great at this. She'd be the epitome of grace and elegance, from entering her incall to the massage, but once she got to the L2 services she was so nasty while still using her sweet little southern belle voice she made me blush. It was a huge turn on.
DallasRain's Avatar
I have a louisiana gent who talks dirty to me in his cajun language. So friggin sexy!
There are different versions of dirty talk. I actually love them ALL
1. The demanding- "fuck me" I'm going to suck all lol the cum out of your hot hard cock" "you like this wet pussy" "tell me"! "Fuck me harder" "cum all over my body"etc......

2. The fantasy talk
"I've been a naughty girl" "I think about you when I'm home playing with my wet pussy"
Etc.
Just a few examples here lol
TristanThick's Avatar
There are different versions of dirty talk. I actually love them ALL
1. The demanding- "fuck me" I'm going to suck all lol the cum out of your hot hard cock" "you like this wet pussy" "tell me"! "Fuck me harder" "cum all over my body"etc......

2. The fantasy talk
"I've been a naughty girl" "I think about you when I'm home playing with my wet pussy"
Etc.
Just a few examples here lol Originally Posted by sexykim2008
OH MY. Yes and yes, Kim. I think there’s something about the blending of the two, the tone of the second with the words of the first.

Or even asking almost as if to coax it out, “you gonna’ cum all over this big ass, baby?” or “bust a big nut, cover me up...cum all over my pussy, baby...”

Same could be said from a guy’s side, “I wanna’ taste that warm, wet pussy and run my tongue in and out of it...” or “I want you to soak this big cock with that juice, baby -that’s it, squirt it all over...” (LOL!)

Feels so funny to type, and probably reads even weirder. But sounds oh so good in my head.
Heidi.Fly's Avatar
I have a filthy mouth full of delightfully nasty little fuck-phrases. You should come play with me.
corona's Avatar
There are different versions of dirty talk. I actually love them ALL
1. The demanding- "fuck me" I'm going to suck all lol the cum out of your hot hard cock" "you like this wet pussy" "tell me"! "Fuck me harder" "cum all over my body"etc......

2. The fantasy talk
"I've been a naughty girl" "I think about you when I'm home playing with my wet pussy"
Etc.
Just a few examples here lol Originally Posted by sexykim2008
oh hai there!!
I encourage it.