Fisting. Tabu?

I've seen threads about watersports, Greek, snowballing, but haven't seen anything about fisting. I'm sure there are some that may indulge...or even curious about it.
I'll start. I used to date this girl and we really started to explore. We were tipsy one night and got a little wild with me ended up fisting her after some intense sex. She had an orgasm that made her almost pass out, after she squirted several times. This was hot and a little scary at the same time.. Anyone wanna chime in?
Solemate62's Avatar
My chime: Not interested!
jhende3's Avatar
Seen this done before on a few porn movies and i actually almost had my whole hand in a female once but i was afraid i was going to hurt her. Come to think of it we were drunk in a hotel.
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My chime: Not interested! Originally Posted by Solemate62
Thought I should explain myself: We all are wired differently. Me, for whatever reason I do not like sticking my finger in a woman's vagina or up her ass! Conversly I love using my tongue on and in both orifices when in a session. I do not like a finger up in me and the annual prostate exam is an exception. So, if I am not into digits into either her or myself I sure as hell would not consider fisting! One exception just came to mind! I was in a hot Doubles once with Alexis and Maddy from Arkansas and while little Alexis was riding my face I felt Maddy insert something that I could tell was lubricated up into my ass. It felt pretty damned good. Turns out that zany Maddy placed a condom on one of her big toes, lubed it and was probing me down there as Alexis was doing her thing to my happy face. I guess it is because I am such a foot freak/foot lover that this technique was fine by me!

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I was just speaking with my roomie about this topic this morning. It's hot for the right partners.

I'm looking forward to hearing some responses.

Would you like for me to put the word "fisting" in the title of your topic, TrmaOne?
I have done it and enjoy it very much. Like a large butt plug it is something you absolutely must to work up to.

I do not really see it so much as an act of D/s, though no one would ever call it vanilla either. Not as intimate as cunnalingus. It is all the more intense for the visual to the receiver.

Good times.
LatexLover's Avatar
Definatley has to be worked up to. Only managed it once with Lindsy Lacey but it was awesome! Felt my whole body orgasm!!!
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I had a provider once tell me that it was one of the few things that she'd never tried, and that she wanted to. It took a good bit of time to work my entire hand/fist in. Once inside, I slowly gyrated my fist, massaging her insides. The net result was that she wouldn't let me leave the incall for roughly nine hours. I think she liked it.
I've been fortunate enough to indulge with a few S.O.'s and a few providers. Very enjoyable in each instance. To feel your partner's body react from the inside is quite hot! Unfortunately I don't hobby as much as I used to so it has become more difficult to connect with providers willing to indulge. But that hasn't stopped me from trying LOL.
I was just speaking with my roomie about this topic this morning. It's hot for the right partners.

I'm looking forward to hearing some responses.

Would you like for me to put the word "fisting" in the title of your topic, TrmaOne? Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers
Yes could you.. Glad to see all the input(no pun intended) thus far.
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  • 07-07-2011, 05:03 PM
Never thought it was a big deal until I did it once, partially. Now I want to go there again.
This has always been a big fantasy of mine, but alas, I have HUGE hands. My ring finger is size 14 1/2 so imagine 5 of them and the meathooks they are hanging from!! I will just have to live vicariously through the stories in here in The Realm!!!!


Spacemtn
Wish there were some women who enjoyed this but I can surely understand the need for discretion and hesistancy in working up to it. This is definitely something that can be hot and extremely erotic at the same time. Those that have indulged, kudos for your adventurous persona.. Lots of fun for sure especially with someone who enjoys it!!
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NOT! There's always a way for those hands to enjoy pleasure!!!


This has always been a big fantasy of mine, but alas, I have HUGE hands. My ring finger is size 14 1/2 so imagine 5 of them and the meathooks they are hanging from!! I will just have to live vicariously through the stories in here in The Realm!!!!


Spacemtn Originally Posted by Spacemtn

As to the topic:
I expressed this a couple of months back in another forum. I'll reiterate here.


Fisting is something a woman has to be in the mood to enjoy as well as her body has to let her know all is ok to enjoy it w/o pain)
Let her pick the moment when she wants it. Not when you want it.
Plus she needs to make sure your hand will fit comfortably inside her pussy, from fingers to closing into a fist position. Large hands are doable (I know!) but it takes skill & patience.
Her vaginal canal has all the *say so* when it comes to fisting.

After, all is enjoyed. Allow her to insert ice cubes or Popsicle for cooling down and to tighten back up.
As YES, both parties can absolutely enjoy sex after fisting and her pussy can still put a tight grip on his shaft. It's all in how she & He tend to her sweet spot after the fist slides out.

Speaking with a wealth of personal knowledge on this topic for 10+years!

And FYI: men, you'll never look at your watch the same. I dare you to keep it on and see just how far she takes you in!!

Enjoy!!
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I love the thought of this; it seems very intimate to me, requiring trust and communication. One of the fantasies I have that I've not found the right person to try with is her doing this on me! It seems like it could be one of those sharing moments that even the most jaded participants could be enthralled by.