Proactive Provider vs Reactive Provider (The piss everybody off thread)

Proactive Provider;

Knows that she is in a business and business takes planing
and execution.

Has a system for taking care of business that works and she sticks
to it, setting up appointments, giving location in a timely manner,
choosing the best incall locations in the best areas, etc

Knows that giving references in a timely manner is very important to
other providers safety and her own, and knows that if that system
breaks down all will suffer, including herself.

Understands she is in a business and doesn't let her emotions
override that fact.

Knows that her looks are a big part of her business and works at
staying fit and healthy, knows that doing something like getting
a set of fake boobs on a body that hasn't seen a gym in five years
probably isn't going to make up for that.

Understands the undeniable importance of cleanliness at all times,
which would also include not having the smell of cigarette smoke
on her person anywhere. (I wonder how much business has been lost
by ladies as a collective, just because they had the smell of cigarette
smoke in their hair, or on their breath)

May have a legitimate complaint, gripe, bitch, but works on trying
to find solutions, and understands that just complaining alone is
not a solution.
(Know any people who's answer to every conflict or any situation that
might arise is always "I'm always right and they are always wrong")

Any business that is not proactive is doomed to fail at some point in time.

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(Know any people who's answer to every conflict or any situation that
might arise is always "I'm always right and they are always wrong")

...... Originally Posted by bojulay

I know a few members that are like that!


Good entire post, bojulay, but you left out the reactive provider traits. Oh, nevermind, those examples are in most of the Coed threads!


With the very intimate nature of this type of business, a regular business model may not be appropriate, but the generalities are just as important. Understanding that a provider cannot be all things to all hobbyists, nor are they robots, you are going to get times where things happen that you do not want in a session and the same can be said vice-versa. However, IMO, an ATF type of provider will not only treat this as a business, having great TCB skills, including but not limited to taking care of herself physically and hygienically, but also while BCD with a client, make it feel personal, making sure she is giving her A-game and her best performance in each and every session.

Providers want the money, after all, that is what they are ultimately mainly here for. But, they need to keep in mind that hobbyists cannot be YMMV with the donation, it has to be 100% of her rate, so that is why it is imperative that the provider give her 100% effort and not be YMMV with her services. If they did that, then there would be nothing negative to react to. If the personal or whatever issue(s) are so bad that is dragging a provider down cannot be forgotten about or put on the back burner for the few moments she is with a guy who is paying for that time they are together, it would be a good idea and in the best interest of both people to cancel and reschedule for another time if possible.

Lol, great post.