Ripped off - I'm a newbie

LOL at making a review, as if that will get his money back. Originally Posted by anonsull

No it won't, and leaving a bad review for a restaurant on Yelp won't either, but it's part of the community of helping each other. Hopefully he benefits from someone else's bad review in the future. At least he got a BJ. I was really expecting it to end with some BS story about why she never showed up, or even just straight up ghosting with the deposit.

(EM is that Eccie Michigan?). Originally Posted by Solemate62

Sad that there really is no Eccie Michigan. I was up there a few weeks ago and not a damn thing. Nothing has been posted to the entire state since my review there. Not sure why it's so weak in that area, but it was disappointing

I am brand new to the "hobby". Saturday was my very first adventure. It didn't go that well...

Out of town on work deployment. Got lonely. Searched and found an ad in EM. Sent a lovely lady a text message asking if she would be willing to see me. She said yes but I had to put a 1/2 deposit down by Google pay. Okay fine, I understand. As the day went on and it got closer for me to see her she said her road was flooded and she could only come to see me now. A $50 outcall free she wanted now. Google pay again. Bullshit. I paid.

She was supposed to be at my hotel at 8pm. Finally arrived at 10 - after many excuses. Bullshit.

We talked for quite awhile. She was very nice and easy to talk to. I tried to kids her but she said "Wait, you're moving too fast". She went into the bathroom to change & took 20 mins. No biggie, take your time.

Came out looking sexy. Gave me a very nice massage. Then a sexy blow job. Nice, we are getting warmed up now. At that point she went back into the bathroom. Great, she is giving me a little break and will be back any sec.

She came out dressed and ready to go home. She said sorry and "it's that time of the month" so I hope you're happy. Happy? Sure. I just dropped $300 on nice conversation with a happy ending blow job. I said thanks and she let herself out.

A bit disappointed? Yes very much so. I hope if I decide to "hobby" again it will be different the next time. Originally Posted by jamesphoto69

Geez you might as well be married.

Whores will scam you all the time if you let them including well reviewed ones.

The only thing they are thinking about is the next sucker in line.

Just remember they are not in this business because they are working their way through Harvard.

She said yes but I had to put a 1/2 deposit down by Google pay.

She went into the bathroom to change & took 20 mins. No biggie, take your time.

Came out looking sexy. Gave me a very nice massage. Then a sexy blow job. Nice, we are getting warmed up now. At that point she went back into the bathroom. Great, she is giving me a little break and will be back any sec.

She came out dressed and ready to go home. She said sorry and "it's that time of the month" Originally Posted by jamesphoto69

Sorry to hear it didn't work out but...

That deposit was the red flag, walk next time. You let her torpedo your ship.

20 minutes to change? She did a lot more than that in 20 minutes, am sure she came out in a good mood

Back in to the bathroom ( again?) after a little cock sucking and than time to go. I think she took too long a break the first 20 minutes, had she taken a break 10 min and 10 min she probably would have finished you off.

It wasn't that time of the month, that is a bunch of bullshit. She needed to leave for the same reason she needed 20 min in the bathroom the first time and a second break shortly after..

This woman has all kinds of issues; the deposit isn't the only issue here ( and the breaks to the bathroom should tell you why she needed the deposit)

the breaks to the bathroom are the bigger concern here but just goes to show you walk once a red flag is waved; the deposit was that flag... and had you walked than the rest would be a mute point. There are situations where deposits are normal but usually at the high end of the market, porn stars, travelling non-advertised girls etc. This one is not one of those and hopefully she gets some help for what is the real underlying issue here. I don't think the issue here is allowed to be discussed which is why I didn't spell it out but it is pretty obvious if one can read between the lines.

On the bright side many bad things can go wrong, if a few hundred bucks is the worst you ever encounter consider yourself lucky and good luck the next time... Moral of your story is never pay a deposit unless you are dealing with the creme de la creme of the hobby which I can assure you this woman is not even close.

Write it off, write her off, write off the cash and go fight the next battle. This one was just a lemon, and in the big picture a rather cheap lesson...Good luck next time, next at bat will be a base hit !

Michigan ? I-94 amps in Jackson and Battle Creek. Unfortunately, Silver Spa in Dearborn got busted last year. Look up asian Massage or some such in your area. Keep hitting until you get a winner.
At least there are still decent strip clubs in the mitten. The strip club scene in KC is deader then Elvis.

Tough lessened learned. Many guys here will tell you to NEVER give a deposit or anything up front. It’s the same reason when you have a contractor come work on your house, you NEVER pay in full up front because he’ll NEVER come back.


One of my earlier experiences , I was meeting a girl at a local adult theater/store (New Fine Arts on mockingbird for you Dallas Texas guys), we met in the parking lot, and as we were walking in, she said normally she got her money up front, I immediately suspected she would dash if I paid her then. I said, when we get in the room. When we got in the store, she said it again, I said, when we get in the room.

Once I’m the room, I made her undress, once that happened, then I laid the money on the table. She didn’t dash, we fucked, but my spider senses were lit the entire time. I think she just gave up and fucked me. But to this day, I swear, if I had given her the cash in the parking lot or the store, she would have ran out of there.

How did I know to not give her the money up front? I read and studied ECCIE beforehand. Both the good encounters and the bad. You learn more from the bad encounters. LOL.

So, for everyone that is new and reading this, what’s the lesson? NEVER PAY UP FRONT.

You're gonna trust a career criminal and advance them money? Come on dude wheres your head at? You're honestly lucky she showed up because most would have found a sucker and just kept draining you and never shown up at all. Most, not all.

Sorry for the awful experience, but you help other men on this site by doing a full review with her name, any links, phone number, email and so forth. (EM is that Eccie Michigan?). Also it was dumb, real dumb to advance money to a total stranger, like you did with this shyster! Now, I have given advance money to a girl in the trade when I knew she needed the money and it was understood it was for services to be rendered in the future! However, we have a four year history that includes maybe 20 plus encounters! Live, learn and better luck next time! Originally Posted by Solemate62

WELL SAID! RESEARCH EVERYONE BEFORE VISITING WITH THEM!

Juliette

You're gonna trust a career criminal and advance them money? Come on dude wheres your head at? You're honestly lucky she showed up because most would have found a sucker and just kept draining you and never shown up at all. Most, not all. Originally Posted by butthosurfer

Most, not all.

Thanks for your comment. There are some of us out there who are not scammers.

I am brand new to the "hobby". Saturday was my very first adventure. It didn't go that well...

Out of town on work deployment. Got lonely. Searched and found an ad in EM. YOUR FIRST MISTAKE IS THAT YOU DIDN'T PREBOOK. THE MORE QUALITY LADIES IS USUALLY NOT AVAILABLE AT THE LAST MINUTE UNLESS YOU HAVE VISITED WITH HER BEFORE. Sent a lovely lady a text message asking if she would be willing to see me. MISTAKE #2 OBVIOUSLY SHE DIDN'T HAVE A WEBSITE WITH A FORM FOR YOU TO FILL OUT. USUALLY THE SAFEST LADIES ARE THE ONES WITH A FORM TO FILL OUT. NOTICE I SAID "USUALLY" THIS DOES NOT APPLY TO ALL LADIES. She said yes but I had to put a 1/2 deposit down by Google pay. NEVER EVER SEND MONEY TO A COMPLETE STRANGER UNLESS YOU ARE CONFIDENT THEY WILL DELIVER Okay fine, I understand. As the day went on and it got closer for me to see her she said her road was flooded and she could only come to see me now. A $50 outcall free she wanted now. Google pay again. Bullshit. I paid. I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU GAVE HER MONEY AGAIN. ARE YOU SERIOUS?

She was supposed to be at my hotel at 8pm. Finally arrived at 10 - after many excuses. Bullshit. YOU ARE LUCKY SHE SHOWED UP AT ALL

We talked for quite awhile. She was very nice and easy to talk to. I tried to kids her but she said "Wait, you're moving too fast". She went into the bathroom to change & took 20 mins. No biggie, take your time.

Came out looking sexy. Gave me a very nice massage. Then a sexy blow job. Nice, we are getting warmed up now. At that point she went back into the bathroom. Great, she is giving me a little break and will be back any sec.

She came out dressed and ready to go home. She said sorry and "it's that time of the month" so I hope you're happy. Happy? Sure. I just dropped $300 on nice conversation with a happy ending blow job. I said thanks and she let herself out.

A bit disappointed? Yes very much so. I hope if I decide to "hobby" again it will be different the next time. Originally Posted by jamesphoto69

IF YOU CONTACT HER OR ANYONE ELSE AGAIN AND SEND THEM MONEY FIRST(UNLESS IT'S ME OF COURSE) THAT WILL BE YOUR 3RD MISTAKE!

RESEARCH, RESEARCH, RESEARCH! USE YOUR BIG HEAD AND NOT YOUR LITTLE HEAD WHEN SCHEDULING TIME WITH A LADY AND PRE-BOOK.

THIS HAPPENS QUITE OFTEN I AM SORRY TO SAY. IT IS SO UNFORTUNATE, IT HURTS THE QUALITY LADIES CAUSING THE QUALITY GENTLEMEN NOT TO TRUST US. THIS PERSON NEEDS TO BE REPORTED SO NOBODY ELSE GETS TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF.

OOPS!

Whores will scam you all the time if you let them including well reviewed ones. IT MAKES THE REST OF US LADIES LOOK BAD WHEN THE OTHER LADIES SCAM THE MEN.

The only thing they are thinking about is the next sucker in line. WOW! SORRY THAT YOU FEEL THAT WAY, YOU MUST HAVE HAD A LOT OF BAD EXPERIENCES.

Just remember they are not in this business because they are working their way through Harvard. Originally Posted by Gotyour6

I AM SURE YOU MEANT SOME LADIES AND NOT ALL LADIES I AM ACTUALLY IN THIS BUSINESS BECAUSE I ENJOY VISITING WITH QUALITY GENTLEMEN. THIS IS MY HOBBY AND I DON'T HAVE TO BE A COURTESAN. MYSELF AND OTHER LADIES THAT I KNOW REALLY ENJOY WHAT THEY DO.

IF YOU EVER COME TO NASHVILLE, I WOULD LOVE TO SHOW YOU THE DIFFERENCE. SORRY YOU HAVE HAD SUCH BAD EXPERIENCES WITH THE LADIES. THERE ARE SOME OUT THERE WHO WOULD LOVE TO ACCOMMODATE YOU AND WILL DELIVER AS PROMISED, INCLUDING ME!

WELL SAID! RESEARCH EVERYONE BEFORE VISITING WITH THEM!

Juliette Originally Posted by Gfe Juliette

Lol, GFE Juliette, if you found the time to write all of these responses today, you must live in an area that was not hit by flooding, as we were here in Rogers County and many other areas of Oklahoma. Really, thank you for all your input!

Lol, GFE Juliette, if you found the time to write all of these responses today, you must live in an area that was not hit by flooding, as we were here in Rogers County and many other areas of Oklahoma. Really, thank you for all your input! Originally Posted by Solemate62

I have worked for 18 days straight without any time off. ( I have my own private business and I don't consider being a courtesan as a job but a hobby). I am beyond exhausted. I am taking a half day off today and I deserve it. I have literally worked my ass off. If anyone visits with me in the future, I am sure they will agree that I have lost some weight. Most people know that I hardly ever get on this board so I am making up for lost time plus this subject is dear to my heart to discuss. I always feel bad when someone rather it be a lady or a gentleman gets scammed.

I had no idea about any flooding. I don't watch the news much these days. My heart goes out to any victims. We are blessed that we didn't get it in Nashville.