I don't consider myself hot shit but maybe this gentlemen's standards are too high, or maybe he just gets off on making providers feel bad about themselves..idk
We spoke several times through out the day and he did inform me that he's not an actual member on eccie but after talking to him I gave him a chance.
He told me about how he didn't wanna waste his/my time and if I'm not the girl in the pics to let him know. So to assure him I sent him an in the moment snap shot. To which he replied "tantalizing"
Fast forward to us finally meeting, he walks in...looks at me with disgust and says "you are not at all.. what I want"
He's obviously run into this problem before with his high expectations, but overall I would just say he's a time waster