Like many Hobbyists I've had encounters with ex-porn stars. Most met my expectations or exporntations since I don't engage in several of the activities that they might have done in film. Especially ATM stuff.
I'd have to say that there are many ladies I've been with that, had I not known, I'd take for porn queens. Mostly based upon their IOP and bodily functions that are hard to fake. But that's based solely on my preferences in the bedroom.
I guess what I'm driving at here is whether your exporntations are that everything you see in their films is on the menu. I knew Kimi Lixx very well and several of her "hits" involved DP. Yet in her private provider life she hated that or even Greek. Yet another of her porn friends couldn't get off without doing DP.
Question being. Are you generally let down by your experience or not?
And to our ex-porn queens. Do you find that you are expected to perform all the activities you did on film? Do you advertise with a "disclaimer"?