I don't think it's smart and I think your being naive. He wanted bbfs but wanted to save face and not get blacklisted. This dude is a time waster and a douchbag. Originally Posted by simpletonThat is exactly what it sounds like wait and see what your response is then say "oh I am just checking"He would not have gotten a response from me I do not indulge in that risky activity and for him to ask would be a big red flag.Guys who are serious do not speak like this most know it is a NO-NO!Any kind of explicit info emails I do not waste my time responding.