Chanel is looking to socialize!

anyone have any ideas on how we're supposed to socialize now that the rules have drastically changed..? another site perhaps..? please advise!

In person is always the best way to socialize. ^^

Wow. I'm out of the country at the moment.

Do you still have girlfriends that hang out with you?

yes, sometimes.. but we're bored to tears. lol

yes, sometimes.. but we're bored to tears. lol Originally Posted by Chanelw81

Maybe Seville Quarter? I'm not really much of a club-goer nowadays, but I've gone there to have a drink or two and to people-watch. I wouldn't mind having a date-night one night, then fun-stuff afterwards (depending on details, of course).

It's been a while since I've experienced that. I'm so used to the "bang-and-go-in-one-hour scene" and I kinda want something different.... lol.

I miss the true-date experience. But, it's hard to find a gal who's willing to do that without serious upcharges.

(And I know people are going to say, try SEEKING! I've tried SEEKING, but had very little luck. With my previous and most recent SB, we went out on several dates, I enjoyed her company, and I'd give her an allowance per meetup, plus paid for everything during our date which sometimes was also a couple hundred dollars depending on where we ate and what we did that day. But when I mentioned "fun-stuff", she wanted 1k.... I'm like, NOPE. She was a hot little 21yo, but that's too rich for me for an hour or so of "fun-stuff". Only way I'd do that much would be for an all-nighter, and if we could "go" as many times as my stamina would allow... lol.)

Maybe Seville Quarter? I'm not really much of a club-goer nowadays, but I've gone there to have a drink or two and to people-watch. I wouldn't mind having a date-night one night, then fun-stuff afterwards (depending on details, of course).

It's been a while since I've experienced that. I'm so used to the "bang-and-go-in-one-hour scene" and I kinda want something different.... lol.

I miss the true-date experience. But, it's hard to find a gal who's willing to do that without serious upcharges.

(And I know people are going to say, try SEEKING! I've tried SEEKING, but had very little luck. With my previous and most recent SB, we went out on several dates, I enjoyed her company, and I'd give her an allowance per meetup, plus paid for everything during our date which sometimes was also a couple hundred dollars depending on where we ate and what we did that day. But when I mentioned "fun-stuff", she wanted 1k.... I'm like, NOPE. She was a hot little 21yo, but that's too rich for me for an hour or so of "fun-stuff"). Originally Posted by BulldogCountry

I get it, I'm the same way but seeking has gone by the wayside of the original intent. Now it's full of scammers, or pros that don't know they are escorting (or don't want to say it). I just had to "educate" one recently (before I let my membership expire) that wanted 3K/month. When I explained that with taxes considered she's talking 45k (or more) a year, and that anyone with that kind of disposable income that is single is also so weird she'd hate being around him, or attached with someone that would surely notice 45k/yr of money, and the time away it would take to be remotely worth it. But I did also say she might hit the goldmine. And also might win the lottery on a 1.00 ticket.



I find it's easier to hunt in the wild these days if you're looking for that type of thing. In most cases they actually have a job, but when approached right and you've built some rapport, can be appreciative of the "help" financially. Just my experience the past few years. YMMV.


Edit because I took a side track:


I've spent time with Chanel and need to do so again. I always enjoyed her company!

I've spent time with Chanel and need to do so again. I always enjoyed her company! Originally Posted by 69in2it69

I've never met Chanel, but open to doing so sometime. Maybe even her girlfriends, too, depending on the meeting parameters

anyone have any ideas on how we're supposed to socialize now that the rules have drastically changed..? another site perhaps..? please advise! Originally Posted by Chanelw81

When I’m back in town, I’ll socialize.