Big Hard Thick Buldging...Wallet?

Lexxxy's Avatar
So I was just talking with some friends and started thinking. My Dr. friend said he can't date a female that makes more money than him, he also said he is weird about seeing providers that bank more than him. He said it is intimidating not to mention he is uncomfortable getting gifts that he couldn't possibly afford to give to his partner. His issue with seeing providers that make more than him is that he feels weird going to amazing incalls that he would never buy for himself.
Does it bother you if a potential female partner makes more money than you?
Does it bother you to see a provider that might make more money than you do?
If a provider is staying in a 3 or 4 star hotel does it make you uncomfortable?
I know that when I have stayed at Salvatore's Garden Place in Buffalo some were shy about coming there and that when I stayed at Brookwood Inn in Pittsford/Rochester some were shy about coming there. I know that if I get stuck staying at a Holiday Inn or Best Western no one ever has anything to say about it other than how nicely I set up the room. I pretty much only stay at nicer places because it is all about my comfort and safety. I mean after all, I have to stay there.
Input?

cowboy8055's Avatar
Money doesn't concern me much. I'm single but if my girlfriend made more than me it wouldn't bother me.
I am not normal. Part of my mid life crises, I am attracted to providers, and woman that make more than than me. When I was young and dumb, it might have mattered.

Really it does not matter to me what the financial status is anymore. I can do tuxedos, and I can do torn blue jeans and a dead head shirt. What matters is how does that person reacts when they encounter someone less fortunate, and other stuff like do they tip well, do they let the driver with the turn signal on in the lane. If they say, fuck-em, then I am not interested.
Sounds like that person might have some ego and insecurity issues. Fucking doctors!

If he made more money than a provider, does he look down on them? That would be a shitty thing to do. People are people. Stay at a nice hotel if you want. I personally like fancy accommodations when traveling.
pyramider's Avatar
If the lady makes more money than I ... good for her. None of my business, too. I am open to having a sugar momma take care of me. Hint, I am almost house broken.
offshoredrilling's Avatar
Lexxxy,
Can I borrow twenty bucks?? I promise to pay ya back next weekend.



ha! I always wanted to try that.
A provider keep askin me last night. Then the posse showed up and well that saved me from that. I well give her twenty next weekend for letting me hide under her short dress.
Perfect Gentleman's Avatar
What would shock the hell out of me is if I saw a provider that makes more money than I do and because of this she refunded some of my donation.
Lexxxy's Avatar
If the lady makes more money than I ... good for her. None of my business, too. I am open to having a sugar momma take care of me. Hint, I am almost house broken. Originally Posted by pyramider
Does house broken mean you wipe your pee spots off the rim before you flush? Wash your hands before sticking your finger in the peanutbutter? Drink OJ and milk out of cups? *Giggles*
I mean if you think about it some girls in big cities make $600 an hour and have a revolving door. I can't think of this one girls name that was on the Michigan board before it got dismantled. She posted that she was $600 an hour plus $100 more for greek and that she saw 5-8 dudes a day. She always had rocking reviews constantly sometimes 3 a day and posted ads frequently. Only God knows what she makes a year.
youngatheart's Avatar
While I am not uncomfortable knowing a provider makes more than I do, I do have an issue when they expect a tip or an expensive gift. Not many people I know (in fact no one I know) makes $200 and hour except providers. YES, I understand it's your body and all that goes into the prep and hotel room, etc. but still......It'd be nice if, on occasion, providers gave us some acknowledgement for spending our hard earned money on them. I know how hard I have to work to get that $200 earned and hidden to fund my fun. And it's a lot longer than 1 hour.
Lexxxy's Avatar
While I am not uncomfortable knowing a provider makes more than I do, I do have an issue when they expect a tip or an expensive gift. Not many people I know (in fact no one I know) makes $200 and hour except providers. YES, I understand it's your body and all that goes into the prep and hotel room, etc. but still......It'd be nice if, on occasion, providers gave us some acknowledgement for spending our hard earned money on them. I know how hard I have to work to get that $200 earned and hidden to fund my fun. And it's a lot longer than 1 hour. Originally Posted by youngatheart
Sweets, of course You Gents are appreciated, I appreciate everyone I have seen. That is why I strive to be the best most passionate gfe possible or the naughtiest dirtiest talking pse. I sincerely appreciate the Gents that chose to spend their time with me and their hard earned money on me. I know that there are regular Joes that have to work extremely hard at saving up,they have to be selective with who they see. It is flattering to have someone with limited funds pick you. I put a lot of time, effort, and money into each and every date. You Gents deserve it, that is what you are paying for.
As far as tips and gifts, they are greatly appreciated and loved, BUT, they are not expected. I know that not everyone is going to buy me jewelry and snow tires haha.
If/when you do buy me jewelry I prefer silver, white gold, and platinum preferably antique or custom made. I don't like canary or chocolate diamonds and I hate amber. As far as gems and what not nothing too busy or bulky okay? I dont like anything taking attention away from my beauty, just accenting it. LMFAO I hope you all know me enough to know I'm totally busting balls and serious about what I like all in one . *Dies laughing*
Damn Lexxy, good post as usual, i really woudn't care if my OL made more then me damn wish she did. Then I would have more hobby money!! LOL I know most provider probally make what I make or even more. Most work at least a part time job and with thiee hobby money when you total it should be a nice pocket of change at the end of the year.
As for the gift issue Youngatheart, I do try to get girls i see on a regular basis something nice now and then like lingere and it can even be simple as chocolate(guys all girls love chocolate)!! I know someone who really likes them. But I don't do that on everydate with them.
But most gilrs don't expect them nor is it a requirement. It is up to you if you want to. Damn I love Christmas time as I get a lot of 100.00 gift cards from people I deal with and most girls will take those as forms of payment!! My OL also doesn't know I get them which is a hobby bonus for me!!

PS Lexxy what sizes tires!!! LOL
Lexxxy's Avatar
Damn Lexxy, good post as usual
PS Lexxy what sizes tires!!! LOL Originally Posted by vern0064
Vern is my new sexxxual harassment "victim" now. Bowchickabowwhoa!!!
youngatheart's Avatar
Lexxy,
I was not implying you were in that category of providers. I was just making a general comment. Unfortunately those who this would be directed to don't participate on the board.
cowboy8055's Avatar
Vern is my new sexxxual harassment "victim" now. Bowchickabowwhoa!!! Originally Posted by Lexxxy
Is it sexual harassment if he enjoys it?
Is it sexual harassment if he enjoys it? Originally Posted by cowboy8055
Bring it on!!!