Last min cancelations by providers

This happens all the time. They verify your references and confirm a 2 or 3 hour date then 2 hours before cancel. They have some excuse which most of the time is from poor planning or just non professional behavior. This is why guys in the hobby schedule 2 or 3 providers for one date because one or two will cancel. I know the ladies get made about cancellations but the main reason this happens ladies is because providers cancel 50 % of the time.

So far I have had 12 sessions and not once did a provider cancel on me.

Some ladies do this, not all. Just like some guys are notorious for keeping their dates while some are notorious for the opposite. This is why screening and research is important both ways. It's also why reviews both positive and negative are important. And for the ncns or habitual cancellations, use the alerts and/or men's lounge to get the word out. Being proactive like that could eventually help to improve the situation but it's extremely unfair to the ones who do consistently keep their appts to generalize everyone like this... And the behavior of double booking only makes it worse. You are essentially training people to perpetuate the behavior you complain of.

This happens all the time. They verify your references and confirm a 2 or 3 hour date then 2 hours before cancel. They have some excuse which most of the time is from poor planning or just non professional behavior. This is why guys in the hobby schedule 2 or 3 providers for one date because one or two will cancel. I know the ladies get made about cancellations but the main reason this happens ladies is because providers cancel 50 % of the time. Originally Posted by Babill1234

Taking your own data, YOU perpetrate a last minute cancellation rate of 50-67%, so what gives you the right to complain about them having similar cancelation numbers? You are every bit as guilty and in your case it is completely pre-meditated.

If you are typical in that regard for your area and demographic, then a lady HAS to double and triple book to make the money she needs--thus causing her to have to last minute cancel frequently. In other words, you may be sowing the seeds of your own dissatisfaction.

Personally I would suspect your estimate that 50% CX last minute on you is overstated--but if it is accurate and you are really getting a 50% cancelation rate it is likely due to your inept ability to select quality ladies. I certainly don't see the quality ladies reviewed here being frequently accused of late CXs. Yes, there are some who get a reputation for that, but back to my point: if you are having the experience with them, then you should have done your homework better.

And of course if you get known for double and triple booking, I am SURE that makes all the ladies even more likely to consider you an expendable back-up to the back-up plan, making you the client of last resort, i.e. He Who Gets Jettisoned First.

While on the topic, let me ask you: INTENTIONALLY planning to CX half to two thirds of the ladies you schedule, is that lack of professionalism or poor planning when YOU do it?

Look, I completely agree last minute cancelations are a real pain. It is wrong when either gender does it for other than unforeseen serious reasons. But when you do what you claim you do, you loose all moral grounds to gripe and become just a whining hypocrite.

+1. I can't say it better.

Clearly old- t is a provider not a client. She got too made on this subject.

Old t over 6000 posts get a life dude!

Clearly old- t is a provider not a client. She got too made on this subject. Originally Posted by Babill1234

Look, class, we have a subject worthy of discussing here. An unusual fellow: part inconsiderate lout (from the OP), part comedian, and part buffoon. But based upon his machismo post to open this thread it isn’t hard to predict this subsequent foot he would insert in his mouth up to mid-calf.

Let us see what we can learn from this specimen. Johnny, what do you notice?

He has been a member for four months and posts less than once a week. He has no reviews.

Very good, Johnny! And what do you conclude from that?

He probably has not spent a lot of time on here, and hasn’t realized that members who have reviews are men.

Excellent, Johnny! Susie, did you have something to add?

He doesn’t have any reviews. Could that be because he can’t tell the difference between men and women?

It is possible, Susie. But I don’t think this lack of reviews is proof, just an indication. Kareem?

Maybe he has no reviews because 100% of the ladies have cancelled on him, not 50%.

That could be, Kareem. Could be.

And maybe he thinks you are a provider because he doesn’t understand that some men actually like and appreciate women.

I suspect you have analyzed that part correctly. Well done.

He obviously hasn’t researched your posting history, sir.

True, Sally. That does show a weakness in his ability or willingness to do adequate research.

You mean like his not reviewing the ladies before selecting high quality ones!

Exactly, Johnny.

Alright class, I think we have learned what we can from this case study. Time to move on to the hands on practical part of the course.

(All the students) YEAAAH! Practical time! We like the hands-on parts!


PS: I am laughing too hard at you to be mad.

You have been a member for 6 years and 8 reviews. I guess you don't have the money to play just talk.

You have been a member for 6 years and 8 reviews. I guess you don't have the money to play just talk. Originally Posted by Babill1234

Said the man with 16 posts.. and ZERO reviews.

What? No money to play, just talk?

You have been a member for 6 years and 8 reviews. I guess you don't have the money to play just talk. Originally Posted by Babill1234

Research is your friend! I have explained that in more detail a number of times, but the short version: I tend to see the same ladies repeatedly. Many are now UTR or officially retired. Want to know more, do your homework.

But nonetheless, at YOUR rate of reviewing ladies--if you can get one to see you--you should catch up to my review total in about 9 billion years.

PS: A question, do you have no reviews because of thread like this one, or because of miscues like this one:
http://eccie.net/showpost.php?p=1057969854&postcount=5

Has Selena given you a reference yet?

Ok let's say it is a problem on both sides so how do we
Fix it? Not just yell at each other. This is
Why I put it on the national board for discussion
And a solution. Maybe I should have posted on a
Local board.

No problem putting it on the national board since it is indeed a situation that cuts across all regions. And sadly, yes, people on both sides are guilty of it.

I am not completely sure how to solve it--I suspect it cannot be completely solved--but I would offer that the best approach is honest information exchange (i.e. when people do it, mention it is reviews and references) coupled with all of us trying to be considerate of the other partner.

I will say that generally the ladies do indeed have more true reasons for last minute CXs, though hopefully in the worst of times it stays well below half. That "reason" is most often small kids. Either kids getting inconveniently sick at the worst times (anyone who has had small kids knows the truth of that) or babysitters flaking and no-showing. When a baby-sitter is a NC/NS it is frequently an unrecoverable problem, and obviously a 2 y/o can't be left home alone.

Things happen. It's best to read up on a lady's reviews to get a feel for her reputation. One of the questions is "did the appointment take place on time?". Keep an eye out on that one. If all the reviews seem to be alright then you should be good. If there are constant reviews that mention she was late or cancels a lot, look for a new lady.

Alot of problems arise from contacting providers who advertise on sub par escort sites. When you stick with providers with plenty of good reviews on top notch sites (TER for example) you lessen the chances of being stood up.