Question on etiquette

I’d like to hear from the guys and ladies on this. Let’s say you’re about to take a trip and you research providers in that area and chose to set an appointment with one. You send an email about 5 days in advance with requested information per her post. How long should you wait without a response back, and should you just move on or send a follow up?

It depends. If she is professional and lives in Las Vegas or Los Angeles, you could schedule five days ahead. Those women are within the 500 to 1,000 range and they are most likely higher quality. If they are not as professional and have bad attitudes, they may block you or ignore you. I once contacted a woman while I was walking in a neighborhood park at night to schedule for the next day. She was ghetto and rude on the phone. She told me to only contact her when I was ready. I never did contact her again after that. You should have a list of women to contact. 1 out of 20 of those women will answer and schedule an appointment. I usually have to contact 7 to 15 women in one day before a confirmed meeting actually transpires. The others don't respond or answer. Sometimes, nothing happens and I call it quits for the day.

Also, you should try to send a private message or text message if it is an available option. They are on their phones all day looking at TikToxic videos, and they can't respond to you? You tell me. They could be busy and unavailable. They will tell you their time is valuable, but your time is valuable as well. You're the one "providing" them the green paper. That's how they survive. You need a roster. First come, first served.

dorm provided some great feedback here. When I travel, I'll reach out a week in advance to 5-10 ladies i'd be interesting in seeing. If they don't respond to my initial message within 24 hours, i'll move on.

Typically, my contact follows the same pattern. 1) I introduce myself, explain why i'll be in town (business/personal), 2) generally where'd i'd be staying (general neighborhood, major landmark etc) 3) dates/times i'd be available to meet up for 1-2 hour sessions and 4) my stats

From there, it's on her to respond with screening info, and if she's willing to meet up. By then, I would have read her reviews, got a sense of the type of session, and the consideration. Mature providers, that want to chat on the phone before I come down, have always been on time to meet me and have been super friendly.

I was in Austin back in April, had a provider schedule an outcall to my hotel (4 star). Every text message after the agreed appointment time was how "she's running late", "needs gas! will be there in a sec", or "just parking the car now!" After it's been a hour and half after the scheduled time I wrote her off.

I would probably contact a few more like Dorm suggested. its normally very few reply the same day...many will be after a few days. Set out an appt and let others know you already booked and will get back if that falls off.

First thing I'm wondering is email that provider's preferred method of contact?? If it isn't, you may never get a response.



When I reach out to someone, I usually make sure I also send a Private Message from my hobby accounts as sort of a verification that whomever is texting/emailing them really is me.

First thing I'm wondering is email that provider's preferred method of contact?? If it isn't, you may never get a response.



When I reach out to someone, I usually make sure I also send a Private Message from my hobby accounts as sort of a verification that whomever is texting/emailing them really is me. Originally Posted by corona

Well said and this is how we like it .

OP if you text or email with out any info on who you are
(ie) Name - Number - Handle- and any screening info providers ask for, you my never hear from them ..

Me I will still reach out and ask for waht you didn't send ..
But that's me ,
do I like it NO, we providers should not have to squzze every bit of info out of you when we have it posted in a Ad as what we want or need for screening.

Thanks everyone for the input. I appreciate it. When reaching out, I do generally try to provide the information noted in the providers posts to speed the process and as Gina noted have had generally good success. In this case, I’ve found this particular provider has a bit of a history of ‘in and out’ of the hobby from time to time. She’s showing no activity on any of her posts for over a week now, so I’m guessing she’s on a break.