Can mechanical blow jobs be fixed?

  • grean
  • 08-02-2017, 01:47 PM
Is it possible to fix the technique of a girl who gives a mechanical blow job?

Let's assume the problem is because she is inexperienced or experienced with bad technique and not because she just doesn't like giving blowjobs.

Is there a polite way to correct her during the session?
New batteries?

I give directions all the time. I have low sensitivity in my johnson, so I often tell them to squeeze harder, go faster, etc. Never had an issue giving direction or her taking it.
corona's Avatar
If you don't speak up and give feedback, don't bitch about it later.

Same goes for giving oral on the ladies. Ask for direction, feedback.
Feedback is key. Especially with the first time.
When I was working with another provider and "things" could be heard from the room into the other room, I started trying to not be so loud and sloppy. Yes, I changed the way I usually do it, but results were still good.

Now that I have a better sound situation, I do try to ask how they prefer it so I can accommodate.

I didn't learn how to give a blowjob on my own. Lots of feedback from the many guys I have done it with over my years.
As to ways, if she does something you like, tell her that is good and keep doing it. If she is having a hard time, say something like "I really like it when a gal does this" and politely direct her. Last thing you want to do is yell "What the fuck are you doing? Haven't you ever sucked a dick before?"
TemptationTammie's Avatar
Let her know what she is doing right. If you want a certain tempo, gently hold her head to get the right rhythm going. Although some ladies may fight this, some may like it.
Let her know if you want her to be a little more gentle or more suction. Or if you want or don't want hands used.
Have your favorite BJ video ready for her to view if she does not meet your requirements. Then have her practice practice practice on you until she gets it right. Win-Win for both of you.

You will be doing her and those of us who see her next a huge favor.
Laura Lynn's Avatar
In my opinion, a good "technique" comes from the actual enjoyment of giving one. If it's mechanical, maybe it's inexperience or maybe she just doesn't like doing it.
TemptationTammie's Avatar
... not because she just doesn't like giving blowjobs. Originally Posted by grean
In my opinion, a good "technique" comes from the actual enjoyment of giving one. If it's mechanical, maybe it's inexperience or maybe she just doesn't like doing it. Originally Posted by Laura Lynn
I would have to agree that enjoyment in giving has to be there for it to be good. But he had to say not because of that.

I'll agree that if the lady doesn't enjoy giving them, they will be more mechanical.
Sir Lancehernot's Avatar
There's way too much video of skilled fellatixes in action for any woman who truly cares about either making a lot of money or making people happy to not learn how to give a good blowjob. (Why do we say "give a blowjob" when they are always sold? But I digress.) As to the feedback question, +1 to the above; I'd add that some guys may not be good at, or enjoy, giving feedback, or the may just be so happy to find their dick in someone's mouth that they just don't care. But I'd also suggest that a woman who cares about what she's doing can ask the guy if he likes what she's doing and if he rather have something else done.
plove35's Avatar
Direction is the key...
tornado82's Avatar
the quickest, easiest way is to find another provider who's experienced in that area
mtabsw's Avatar
A little less air in the blow-up doll and a little more lube seems to work for me.
Watch ginger Lynn video
Brookpwa's Avatar
I love to give head. I can tell if someone is enjoying it or really enjoying it. If they are quiet I will stop and ask if they like it or perhaps they can give me a heads up on how they like it. I have not had any complaints. So I guess most guys like sloppy,wet, DT.