Just wanted to pass along my experience from Adult Friendfinder (AFF)
I signed up for the basic 3-month package, and allowed access to view the persons full profile and allowed to send/receive e-mail. What the service doesn't tell you is that too receive other standard members e-mail, will cost you another $20.00 for the 3-month time period. There is another charge to become a Gold member. AFF also automatically renews your membership so you have to send e-mails to the sight to quit.
If your willing to invest the money and work at talking women up, then it might be worth it. To me it was not, and I will leave the service when my current membership runs out.
I beleive it is nothing but a scam as well. I was a paying member a while back and never found anything.
I am sure there are some women on there, but, I would say most are plants to draw men in.
I can say without a doubt that adult friend finder is real.
I have met many lifelong friends there. There are a lot of flakes, or people who have the "fantasy" of meeting up with very little intention on actually meeting. Those people are annoying.
But I've met a ton of couples, mainly guys who like to watch me with their wife. I'm fault well endowed, which might explain why I get several messages.
There are also a lot of BBWs on the site, so if that's not your thing be forewarned. There are very few "attractive" single girls... in fact I would call them unicorns. You won't see many of them at all.
I would say: have a great profile, great pictures of your body, and be respectful at all times. Follow those three steps and you will meet someone on AFF.
I used AFF about 10 years ago and met what Goodbar calls a 'unicorn' out there. It was a really nice time but to be honest, it wasn't what I was looking for because NSA fun really wasn't why she was there. In the end, I broke the fling off and it was pretty much like breaking off a real relationship. Why go through that when you can just have a real relationship?
Haven't used AFF since then and never did as a paid member, so I don't know what the upgrades get you.
I found most of the stuff I got was spam or working girls in reply. Not worth even a trial. Website is well done and promises the moon. Hot horny chicks that want just you.
Great looking chicks don't need a website to hook up. Women with a lot going for them. Ie great job or has there act together don't need help.
That leaves, you guessed it. The rejects. The one I met that was remotely decent looking was a retard. After having sex with her for over a year I thought enough is enough.