So...how'd you get into the hobby lifestyle?

As for myself, many years ago friends and I used to drive by Hunt's Point in the Bronx just to see what we could see for a cheap thrill. Nobody hobbied right there in front of one another. We were civilized animals. We just wanted to see hot chicks strut their stuff. This was back in the early 80's.

Fast forward a few years and I was off to college in the Southwest and just not able to get laid. One day when I couldn't take it any more, I drove to the main drag where there were tons of options, pulled the trigger, got a CBJ, and I was off to the races. I hobbied in college, then back home for quite a while until I got my first GF, a few more GFs, practice wife #1, practice wife #2, and now I'm back.

Being used to getting sex regularly from my really sexy soon-to-be ex wife #2 (she moved out a couple of months ago), and having zero luck on match.com, made getting back into the hobby a no brainer.

And I'll tell you, it's been quite enjoyable. I've not kissed too many frogs and have met a few sexy women and a have experienced a couple of just amazing providers.

Anyhoo, that's my story and I'm sticking to it.

A friend and I wanted to bang a chick together.

I was in college and posted on craigslist...a lot. It was fairly new then, very active. Was talking to this woman and we set up a time to meet. That's when she brought up an exchange. Wasn't a lot, I had a job, etc. The classic needed help with bills. After talking to her I kind of believed her, even now as a jaded hobbying adult. I didn't hear from her again but I picked her up, went back to my place, and we spent quite a while together. Brought her back to her car, gave her some cash and off to the races I was.

Been posting on CL for years since, had a streak of free meets for years then it kind of died and here I am.

A friend and I wanted to bang a chick together. Originally Posted by ddnutz

I enjoy a threesome as long as its FFM... not so much into sword fighting.

My start was being in NYC for business back in the late 80s early 90s. Spent some time in Times Square at live sex shows. Ended up taking a gal back to my hotel one time and had my first P4P experience. Never was much into the street meat scene and found most of my fun through ads in the village voice or in the yellow pages of the phone book.... all last century...prior to Gore inventing the interwebs.

After a slew of disappointing relationships I decided I didn't want to date seriously anymore. I am primarily interested in older, intelligent, go-getter types so sugaring seemed like a good option. I quickly came to find that on SA most of the "daddies" are just a John who don't want to call a spade a spade. I estimate that 5% of men on SA want a long term commited relationship, 25% want a sugar baby, and the remaining 70% want a non-pro escort. So I supplied what they demanded and was unofficially escorting on SA. Someone posted a review of me on here and I heard about this site through the grape vine. Decided to join. Eventually left SA and just do this now.

Traditional relationships sure can be disappointing, and REALLY expensive. Sometimes I think I'd have been better off just sticking to hobbying.

Like Chask....started at the end of college when I couldn't take it anymore and then my Uncle sent me to Korea.....no wonder I came home broke.....different assignments in the states spending a lot of money on strippers who I would bring home with me and then one day I found myself crossing the Canadian boarder and it was as if I was in heaven.....came home and found a web site called escorts.com......the rest is history

now I just need to find another job to pay for this hobby......its killing my budget.....fuck it, you only life once right?

Cheaper than a 3rd ex-wife

When I heard these words the first time. "What the hell are you doing? No you just got it 2 days ago. Is that all you ever think about?"



T'Pol me up. Trip how you getting on with purging the plasma generators.

Cheaper than a 3rd ex-wife Originally Posted by 57fubar

And how!

First one cost me $40K in just legal fees...AND SHE WAS HAVING THE AFFAIR...AND LOST THE LEGAL BATTLE IN A LANDSLIDE.

2nd wife left me almost $50K in CC debt. Lol!

$$ .5 - $$$ / hr for hot sex once a week is a drop in the bucket!

When I heard these words the first time. "What the hell are you doing? No you just got it 2 days ago. Is that all you ever think about?"



T'Pol me up. Trip how you getting on with purging the plasma generators. Originally Posted by hob782

Hob,

Tell me about those horrendous words. So ridiculous.

My 2nd ex eventually didn't want to spoon because I'd get hard and she'd feel obligated to take care of me.

Oh, OK, so it would be better if I wasn't turned on by her?!?! Then she'd accuse me of being gay, or being interested in someone else.

Beam me up, too! We can do those green space chicks Cap'n Kirk used to bang!

Was married, no sex, horny started with AMP then visited my first provider.

When I was a "non-pro" college freshman I dabbled with a few Splenda daddies on the usual SD/SB sites.
Then I started browsing and answering adult gigs on the long-gone CL and then starting eyeing the adult services/escorts section on there...started posting ads and voila (went on to BP, Cityvibe, long gone escorts,com, TER, ECCIE etc not long after that).

Met a girl at work that i really wanted to fuck. But she wasn't worth cheating for all the obvious reasons. She's a young dumb chick. She worked where i work. And cheating and getting caught ain't worth it.

So i started looking around and googling escorts. Trying to find a girl that looks like her. I rarely get out of town, but the first time i did, i found an escort phone number online and called. She asked where i was staying, a shitty hotel. She said she don't go there and hung up.

So i started learning. Few months later i was out of town again and got my first covered bj, which was awesome. First AA girl is was with, too.

Funny, i used to think all girls looked like their pictures!

Got started thanks to Steve Jobs and Google.. After getting a speeding ticket on my way to work, I was searching for radar detectors on my iPhone. Needless to say the search results piqued my interest. Out of curiosity I started checking out the sites, then researching etiquette, unwritten rules, AMPs, ect.......... An AMP opened up locally about a month or two later and gave it a shot. A couple of months later I finally got the balls to make the first call to a well reviewed provider and I was hooked.