One of my biggest issues is when the guys try to compare body types to other providers... I find it to be rude.... Why? Because everyone is different and unique in their on way....
Originally Posted by lovely76
I'm not really sure I am interpreting the activity in the context in which you want responders to post.
I think it's generally understood that nearly all hobbyists have a preferred body type.
That being said, it's been my experience that mature and experienced hobbyists don't limit themselves to providers who have that particular body type.
I'll use my self as an example. I prefer small Asian spinners under 5'2" and 105 pounds who have all natural breasts that are no larger than 34B. However, my list of favorite providers include very tiny ladies to super-size BBWs. FYI, hobbyists who pass up a lady just because she is a BBW are rejecting a segment of providers that have been a source of wonderful experiences.
Any hobbyist who compares physical attributes as a comparison tool when speaking to a provider is simply rude, crude and ignorant ... in my opinion. I've been the hobby for about 25 years and
it's been my experience that a provider's attitude is far more important than her physical attributes.
Regretfully, manners and civil behavior are no longer respected and sought after traits in America any longer. Those who are respectful and mannerly are deemed to be weak and without value in our society that values, rewards, and practices aggression, dishonesty and rudeness on a daily basis.