2. "Catholic" means un-cfs....and it is openly sought/offered/received. (This I'm really not sure about. It's only been a year since I was last active and it was still as taboo as ever, then. And, rightly so, imo....but, hey. And, hopefully I'm getting this completely wrong

Just curious...
Ppl have been saying "things are so different now" since I joined in 2005. It's really never seemed so true to me until now, though. Wow lol!
Note: this is not intended to be judgmental or sarcastic.