Any providers without children?

I have never seen this asked and with my lack of social intelligence, I wonder if it is because it should not be asked. But what the hell...

As a man that has a hard time reaching orgasm, especially with a condom and nervousness, I have appreciated those ladies who have not given vaginal birth. This is not to say a woman cannot snap back after pushing a softball through this canal, but it is not the norm. There is almost always a permanent stretching to the vagina, especially with multiple children. My wife had two C-sections so I was surprised when I was with my first provider that had children. I just had a real hard time feeling much.

So at the risk of further ostracizing myself from the norm, I was wondering if there are any ladies that are still childless or have not given birth vaginally. Feel free to PM privately if you feel it is inappropriately to post publicly.

Again, I am not trying to insult those that have given birth. The problem is entirely on my end both physically and mentally.

I have never seen this asked and with my lack of social intelligence, I wonder if it is because it should not be asked. But what the hell...

As a man that has a hard time reaching orgasm, especially with a condom and nervousness, I have appreciated those ladies who have not given vaginal birth. This is not to say a woman cannot snap back after pushing a softball through this canal, but it is not the norm. There is almost always a permanent stretching to the vagina, especially with multiple children. My wife had two C-sections so I was surprised when I was with my first provider that had children. I just had a real hard time feeling much.

So at the risk of further ostracizing myself from the norm, I was wondering if there are any ladies that are still childless or have not given birth vaginally. Feel free to PM privately if you feel it is inappropriately to post publicly.

Again, I am not trying to insult those that have given birth. The problem is entirely on my end both physically and mentally. Originally Posted by FatManHobbyist

I just gave birth of may this year, and have been told that I am still as tight as I was or even tighter, not to brag, but it's the truth. I don't think that given birth really as anything to do with youre promblem. I know woman that haven given birth vaginally 3 times, and say we they have sex, it's still tight for them with the man. SO who know's.

I have had a much easier time reaching orgasm with childless providers all else being equal (which is often not equal).

I mean no insult and it is just what I am looking for at the moment. Other times I am looking for sultry, perversion, maturity, youth, or some other desire. Not trying to start an argument.

well I was going to stay out of this one but I have to know
are you well endowed?


I'm sure sp hunter never has this problem !!!!!!

I have had a much easier time reaching orgasm with childless providers all else being equal (which is often not equal).

I mean no insult and it is just what I am looking for at the moment. Other times I am looking for sultry, perversion, maturity, youth, or some other desire. Not trying to start an argument. Originally Posted by FatManHobbyist

I wasn't looking for one! Just stated how it was for me, after childbirth, and is probably the same way for alot of providers, we don't get all loosey goosey after childbirth.

well I was going to stay out of this one but I have to know
are you well endowed?


I'm sure sp hunter never has this problem !!!!!! Originally Posted by fawn

That is correct. I am no SPHunter. I need all the help I can get.

I have to have a chick that has given birth, or the Big Jake Stick of Love with never get in.

You stud, you.

Y'all need to play nice and I can vouch that Tara is pretty tight.

Hmmm, guessing I should not have asked.

Y'all need to play nice and I can vouch that Tara is pretty tight. Originally Posted by SP Hunter

Youre reminding me of our last appointment, and it's turning me on just thinking about you, and your...... It's been way to long, SP, way to long!

Twenty five days :-(

FMH,

Let me answer your question first. I'm completely childless and wish to remain so, however I do love other people's children!


What I think you are trying to tactfully ask is (in a white-trashy backwoods redneck accent) "Hey all you providers with tight pussies out there, please raise your hand." Yes this is absolutely vulgar, but I'm attempting to stay light-hearted on a touchy subject, so please understand I mean no offense.


Reading through medical journals I've condensed into medical language basically the research I've found on this topic.

1. A woman's vaginal canal does change directly after giving birth.
2. A woman's vaginal canal almost always goes back to the same size (although there is variance - some get smaller in width, some larger)
3. Kegel exercises are almost always successful re-toning the "pelvic floor muscles", the ones that "make it feel tight" (again with the vulgar language - sorry)
4. A woman's vaginal canal changes width throughout its length -
5. the smallest in width being at the opening (the introitus - the average width 1.03 inches); and the largest at the deepest into the body (proximal end of the vagina - closest to the uterus - average width 1.28 inches)
6. In the same woman, measured at different times of the month - the width of her vagina can and does change by several millimeters (I was surprised to learn this)
7. Race has not been scientifically shown to be a factor in assessing the size/width/length of vaginal dimensions

So I guess the medical evidence is steering us back to the Kegel Exercises.


HOWEVER (quite interestingly enough) in my research on this topic I found some interesting items for MEN on Kegel Exercises.

From Wikipedia:

Benefits for men

Though most commonly used by women, men can also use Kegel exercises. Kegel exercises are employed to strengthen the pubococcygeal muscle and other muscles of the pelvic diaphragm. Kegels can help men achieve stronger erections and gain greater control over ejaculation. The objective of this may be similar to that of the exercise in women with weakened pelvic floor: to increase bladder and bowel control and sexual function.

Sexual function

Kegel workouts can provide men with stronger erections. Research published in 2005 issue of BJU International, have shown that pelvic floor exercises could help restore erectile function in men with erectile dysfunction. (Basically, us ladies won't have to try to wake the dead - )

It is also possible that strengthening the pelvic floor may allow some men to achieve a form of orgasm without allowing ejaculation, and thereby perhaps reach multiple "climaxes" during sexual activity.

So while, yes, this thread is about women and how small or large they are - it seems that the gentleman's physiology can be enhanced, just like a woman's in order for both parties to achieve maximum pleasure.

So glad you asked!......

I have no children (46 yrs. old) plus I practice my kegel exercises religiously.

Hope that helps!

I am playing nice. I'm just advertising that I swing a big stick.