how often should you visit the same provider?

  • thx
  • 06-10-2010, 07:38 AM
How often is it ok to visit the same provider, without it being unusual or sound like a stalker?
See her as often as you'd like. I'd see my favorite clients every day if they could get away with it
  • T-Can
  • 06-10-2010, 08:05 AM
Once
  • T-Can
  • 06-10-2010, 08:11 AM
Sorry I was speaking Spanish this morning and meant to say 11 (once means eleven in Spanish)

Seriously, it should not matter as long as your respectful and don't practice stalkerish behavior around said provider. The most I've seen a provider is 8 times and I will see her again until she accepts my proposal to go on a real date. (Haha, jk!)
Lana Warren's Avatar
As long as you enjoy each other's company, see her how often as you would like! I have a few gentlemen that I date on a regular basis and they tell me the reason why they love dating me is because our personalities match so well! Oh, and they tell me I'm the greatest lover that they have ever had!
Fiero's Avatar
  • Fiero
  • 06-10-2010, 08:27 AM
Till she changes her name and number or the restraining order kicks in whichever happens first. No no no I kid...that only happened once (meaning one time not 11) and it was another state.

Seriously...I've never dedicated enough research money to this to reach a point of wondering but I would think if you are clicking with someone there wouldn't be a limit until for whatever reason you're not clicking. Sounds like one of those dreaded communication things.

Interesting question to see what the group thinks tho.
cubsoxbull's Avatar
I think if you listen to what the ladies have posted on this question, they both hit it right on. If you enjoy spending time with someone, and she also enjoys spending time with you, then there really isn't any limit. I think most of us can tell when we clicked with someone, and yes sometimes we meet ladies that we don't click with.

As often as possible seems the right number.
Shackle's Avatar
Not sure there is a limit on the number of visits as long as you both are having fun. If she tires of you she will let you know one way or the other.
As often as you can without developing any kind of emotional attachment... If that happens, stay away until that feeling goes away then go back again! Keep it simple, fun and drama free for both parties...
Donnie Brasco's Avatar
I think if you listen to what the ladies have posted on this question, they both hit it right on. If you enjoy spending time with someone, and she also enjoys spending time with you, then there really isn't any limit. I think most of us can tell when we clicked with someone, and yes sometimes we meet ladies that we don't click with.
Originally Posted by cubsoxbull
+ 1,000,000 on that.
I've seen ladies one time that, I can't fathom ever meeting again.
I've had ATF's that, I couldn't see enough. If there's chemistry there, KNOCK YOURSELF OUT!
drez63's Avatar
I've been a "see her as often as I can afford" type guy in the past, but last couple of years I like more variety. I hate to admit it but I have actually kept scheduling my regular weekly session with one of my faves and found myself almost dreading it....it got routine and felt like an obligation. Dont get me wrong, I love seeing her still. I just have a larger rotation now.......Absence does make the heart grow fonder....or a least the libido stronger.......
CanDo01 is my go to provider now. I don't see anyone else because of him. Yes, he is THAT feckin' smexy!
AWW DOES DREZ MISS HIS BROOKE ;( WELL THE FEELING IS MUTUAL!

BRASCO +100000 SOUNDS LIKE I NEED AN APPLICATION TO BE UR ATF. WHERE DO I SIGN? HEHE

thx- as long as you can afford it!! I say see her whenever your "head" tells you too ;0)
Until it feels like you are now screwing your wife and it's no longer fun.