David, you don't think the providers have the ability, will, interest, or something to not pull little IOP? Or even genuinely like it? On the flip side, do you think people running cams now aren't ever faking it? I'm not disagreeing, exactly. I have no idea. Just wondering what you mean.
Originally Posted by no_romance_needed
To answer your questions, rare is the provider who genuinely enjoys providing and ALL have the ability to give off IOP or as I refer it as being a mattress actress, some better than others, but the real question there is will they APPLY that ability? That is very debatable. With the provider market as full as it is and growing every day, why would a provider not want to make you glad you chose her to contact and spend your money on as opposed to all the choices he had out there? I am sure many cam girls fake it as well, with the moaning, facial expressions and body movements, but since they are on live cam, what they cannot fake is the wetness from masturbating and cum when/if they squirt.
The giving of IOP, if not genuine passion, is mainly what hobbyists pay the providers for. Which includes, but not limited to making him feel glad he is a man, also making him feel special for the time he is with her and laugh at his stupid and corny jokes. Logic would dictate that these girls would not give most of the guys the time of day in RL who pay them for sex BCD. Unfortunately, there are some stupid guys out there who think that when a provider makes him feel good that he may get the impression she really likes him thinking that she is his real friend and may even become a stalker more or less. I understand why many providers put up that wall, but it still sucks that they do tho.
What I am trying to say is that from my experience, meeting a provider for a BCD session and she is a dead fish fuck, you can probably still get off, but that is not the point of a true GFE session, it is about the whole experience from the time you walk in the door to when you leave, not just getting a nut. I can get a nut jacking off to either free porn on the internet, renting a porn video or buying a $6.00 porn magazine rather than paying a provider $200-400 coupled with spending even more with the indirect costs of gas, mileage and time. OTOH, a cam girl, if she wants to make money, cannot look like a corpse with her eyes closed and no sounds as a guy will move on to the next cam with no money lost.