I'll probably be slammed for saying this, but any provider who is advertising specific services in exchange for money is playing with fire. Being an escort is not illegal. Exchanging sex for money is. How difficult is that to understand?I don't have a problem with this pov as long as there is independent evidence of what kind of a session I can expect. I get very wary of a lady who has that disclaimer on her site (donation is only for time), and there is no way to tell what those sessions might be like. I may be a cynic, but I assume from that scenario that, at most, I'll get an hour of conversation, nothing more. And I can't complain: that's all I bargained for.
I request a specific donation for my time, and let the session unfold as it may, without rushing the client out before his time is up. I never feel pressured to perform any acts that I wouldn't be comfortable with, and if I did feel pressured, I am secure enough to convey that to the client maturely. Originally Posted by Natalie Reign
I'll probably be slammed for saying this, but any provider who is advertising specific services in exchange for money is playing with fire. Being an escort is not illegal. Exchanging sex for money is. How difficult is that to understand?Exactly. Every session is different, and charging a man extra after he's already paid for one's time is unscrupulous at best and very foolish at worst.
I request a specific donation for my time, and let the session unfold as it may, without rushing the client out before his time is up. I never feel pressured to perform any acts that I wouldn't be comfortable with, and if I did feel pressured, I am secure enough to convey that to the client maturely.
If I were a hobbyist, I would stay away from providers who advertise for specific services, because many people who don't pay attention to the fine print in the laws often get sloppy in other areas, and none of us can afford to get sloppy. I realize this statement doesn't apply to everyone, but is a generalization based on my own personal observations over the years. Originally Posted by Natalie Reign
Natalie while I respect what you say I would imagine that is not an option for you. No disrepect intended at all. The boards are a great source for this type of information. We all know that we need to use our big heads when we partake. Both sides Originally Posted by burkaliniNo disrespect taken at all... especially since I believe you've made some assumptions about the type of service I provide simply because I said that I refuse to advertise specifics services.
If a provider upsells for MSOG can the hobbyist pay less if they can't even do it once?With all due respect to you Ms. Mya...but, this statement is absurd...imho. They pay the donation "for our time" as far as I'm concerned...he could sit in a corner with diapers on and sucking on a binkie...if that's what floats his boat for the hour. (lol)