My old number is being answered by somone.....

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I HAVE NOT HAD THE 816-349-**** NUMBER FOR OVER A YEAR, DO NOT USE THIS NUMBER!!

A client I have not seen in a year or so called my old number tonight and apparently "set up a appointment". Nothing bad came of it and thank goodness nothing confidential or illegal was discussed. I only share my number with established clients and contacted everyone to notify them of the number change when it happened.

I just want to remind everyone to always be smart and use common sense. I am not just referring to this situation but everything in the hobby.

If I tell you 3 separate times over email that I cannot see you at any point tonight or this weekend, then you text a number you haven't used for over a year and I immediately confirm a appointment for within the hour.......hmmmmmm..........Yo u might want to use your big head and at least hear my voice before checking into the room.

EVERYONE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE BE SAFE! THIS COULD HAVE ENDED MUCH WORSE.

XOXO - LOVE YOU ALL
They he didn't get the point after the emails, I'd kick him to the curb. That's just plain stupidity.
Bristal's Avatar
That's another thread

I am not going to be seeing or communicating with him any longer, it's the stupidity clause. If he does something like this, then what else would he do?

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I HAVE NOT HAD THE 816-349-**** NUMBER FOR OVER A YEAR, DO NOT USE THIS NUMBER!!

A client I have not seen in a year or so called my old number tonight and apparently "set up a appointment". Nothing bad came of it and thank goodness nothing confidential or illegal was discussed. I only share my number with established clients and contacted everyone to notify them of the number change when it happened.

I just want to remind everyone to always be smart and use common sense. I am not just referring to this situation but everything in the hobby.

If I tell you 3 separate times over email that I cannot see you at any point tonight or this weekend, then you text a number you haven't used for over a year and I immediately confirm a appointment for within the hour.......hmmmmmm..........Yo u might want to use your big head and at least hear my voice before checking into the room.

EVERYONE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE BE SAFE! THIS COULD HAVE ENDED MUCH WORSE.

XOXO - LOVE YOU ALL Originally Posted by Bristol
Bristol,

You are so correct regarding common sense. Unfortunatly in the lifestyle, at times it ain't all that common.. How can someone not get the hint after 3 emails..I mean..DUH..lol. I don't even want to know this guy, not in the least bit balanced. I just keep being amazed.
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That's another thread

I am not going to be seeing or communicating with him any longer, it's the stupidity clause. If he does something like this, then what else would he do?

Originally Posted by Bristol
Damn what I would do to find out who that person was! Ok you twisted my arm Bristol I will teach you the secret oral technique from nepal, and I swore a blood oath with the monks never to show anyone!
Bristal's Avatar
3 times is small fries in my world. Lol I have to use my parenting skills more then you would think in my "provider life".

Don't give in to repeated requests just to shut them up

Present a united front; the whole system fails if one parent/provider caves (bbfs,steep discounts,etc.)

Give instructions a 2 year old could understand and repeate them often

Give posative feedback

Treat them all equally

Don't spoil them too much
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Damn what I would do to find out who that person was! Ok you twisted my arm Bristol I will teach you the secret oral technique from nepal, and I swore a blood oath with the monks never to show anyone! Originally Posted by The DarkSide
He is from Kearney. What more do I need to say?
You know, Bristol, we are not all idiot, child-like moron/assholes

But when I see posts like this...I can see why the ladies tend to treat us like ones...at least initially
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But I gotta say it again..

"Women are crazy and men are stupid, why are women so crazy? Because men are so fucking stupid"

George Carlin
Bristal's Avatar
You know, Bristol, we are not all idiot, child-like moron/assholes

But when I see posts like this...I can see why the ladies tend to treat us like ones...at least initially Originally Posted by vkmaster
I know, but I'd seem weird making a post saying "This guy today was so perfect, he............". Lol So all you get is the butt head posts.
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But I gotta say it again..

"Women are crazy and men are stupid, why are women so crazy? Because men are so fucking stupid"

George Carlin Originally Posted by malwoody
My super favorite I use all the time is:

"All guys/girls are crazy. You just have to find crazy you can live with."
Totally understand...and sometimes the butt head posts can be entertaining

To the readers, that is, lol
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Totally understand...and sometimes the butt head posts can be entertaining

To the readers, that is, lol Originally Posted by vkmaster
I only watch the first episodes of American Idol because I enjoy the train wrecks.
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Thank you fritz!